scared

Hi everyone! As many of you know, I haven't had surgery yet and I am scared to death. I know this is a normal feeling, but how in the world do ya get past it? I know that in July OSU is having their meeting and I do plan to go. But I am so nervous. I'm afraid i'll chicken out. The thought of even seeing the surgeon scares me. HELP! I have severe panic attacks and anxiety. Do you think the way I feel is a sign that this surgery isn't for me or ....what?

I think most of us are scared and think we are the one person thats the one with complications or even die. You have to feel so confident with your surgeon. Thats so important. Until I met Dr.Curry I felt the same way. Take a valium and just go to meeting and see how you feel after that. I cant tell you what to do but I have never felt better . Love and much luck,Cindy

Bobbie, This is such a private decision. Only you can tell if you are really ready to do this. I agree you should meet the surgeon and listen to what they have to say before you decide. Investigate and research the choices. Knowledge is power. Good luck what ever you decide to do. Deb

Bobbie, We all have felt the same way. Come to the meeting, I will be there. We can talk if you like. Others will be there as well that maybe can ease your mind. They did help me. I can tell you that I have met both Dr. Mikami and Dr Needleman from OSU. They are both wonderful. They will answer all your questions. They both are very down to earth Drs. If you need to talk more, please feel free to email me. From one Chillicothe gal to another... you can do it sweetie! Julie

Bobbie, Having this surgery is something you alone can decide. We have support group meetings the first Monday of the month , 6:30 p.m., in the Hopewell room at Adena Hospital. We would love for you to come! We have a group of wonderful people who were once scared, just like you! The knowledge and experiences of the post ops is awesome! Not only do we have a great time, every time, but we learn so much. I don't think that there is a question you could ask that could not be answered by someone in the group....except...should you have the surgery. That is one that only you can answer. Please come to our next meeting, even if you decide to never have the surgery, you will be better informed and have a great time as well! See you there! Mary

Bobbie, I understand how you are feeling also. I havent had the surgery yet, but I am on the road. I think the thing that helped me was meeting with Dr. Curry and his staff. They answered all my questions and didnt even laugh at them..hehhe...One thing that sticks in my head and that I have to tell myself all the time is that..yes there can be complications with the surgery but I have to remember what the major complication will be if I dont have it. I have two children both under the age of 5 and I need to live for them as well as myself. I hope this helps you a little.....Pam

Dear Bobbie, I was steadfast and strong until those last few weeks preop. Then the reality of it kicks in and you realize that you could die, you could have lifelong complications. But then I met Dr Mikami and all of his wonderful supportive staff. And they reminded me of what a miserable life I was having pre op. How much pain I was in just following the nurse down the hall to the exam room, and getting on the table. Now I could race her and give her a run for her money. Thats in 5 weeks Bobbie. The first 2 weeks were tough for me due to a serious bought of depression. I was having doubts that I shouldnt of had the surgery. Dr Mikami gave me a 1 mg antianxiety pill to help me through that time and saved my life, again. Now I am having more energy than I have had in years, my outlook on life is positive, I am feeling healthier, sexier, kinder, livelier than I have had in 20 years. I have no regrets now, except not being able to have done it sooner. I was afraid yes, but Dr Mikami truly helped me put it in perspective and the day of my surgery I was fearless. Just ready to get the show on the road and start this new life. If you ever need to talk look me up. I dont know how much help I can be, but I can sure listen. Big hugs Laura

Thanks, you guys. You all are so kind. I know i need to do this for myself. I can't take very many steps without getting out of breath. Please pray for me or keep me in your thoughts. Thanks again!