Fantasy???

Ok: What do you fantasize (not sexual - too much info - ) most about doing when you reach goal?? Or if you have reached goal what fantasy have you fulfilled? I so want to just be able to walk into a room and I want to go dancing without feeling so darned self conscious! Have a great day!! Stacey

i want to be able to walk without running out of breath and having severe pain and to care for my disabled fiancee again and to be able to push his wheelchair around at cedarpoint and ride the rides again i've never been able to ride a ride over there with him i've taken him there i could still push his chair but i was already to big to fit in the rides when i meet him

Those are great ones! I too can't wait to be able to go to Cedar Point and ride the rides but with my daughter!! I haven't been able to ride in years and never with her!! We will be there someday I know it!!

I want to be able to get on the back of DH's motorcycle without having to grab my ankle to get my leg over. I want to buy a really cute pair of knee high boots next fall. I want to get to goal so I don't think people are looking at me and DH and thinking "well I guess she has $$, no other reason for him to be with HER". Becky R 254/208/145 -45lbs in 7 1/2 weeks

What an aweful feeling to think that people look and think that your DH is only with you for $$! I doubt very seriously that it is true! I hope the day comes soon when you don't feel that way!! Enjoy that motorcycle!! I bet before too long the wind will blow you off the back!! Hold on tight!!!

Don't get me wrong...I know my DH didn't marry me for $$...lol, I was a single mom with two pre-teens and an ex hubby $34k in arrears! My hubby is young, very handsome and well built. I know people look at us funny, I have had people refer to me as his mom-one of my own (psuedo)friends asked me WHY he wanted to marry me. DH is very good about constantly reminding me he loves me, and thinks I am attractive-but surely you know how it is to have people avoid looking, raise their eyebrows and look down their noses. It doesn't usually phase me, but sometimes...

Oh no - I meant that I doubt people look at you guys and think that! You are so right to call his friend a psuedo- friend!

haha that is sooo me!!! I want to ride on the back of my mans bike but feel I'm waaaaay too fat for that, I told him I won't ride until I'm close to 200 pounds!! And knee high boots yup that's me too...and the whole thing with people wondering y he's with u, I think the SAME way, my boyfriend is sooo nice and good looking I bet people wonder!! lol ~Tema 256 and still waiting....

Okay Stacey...you asked for it! Not so much a fantasy but my goal....to wear a bra with 2 hooks! I am tired of toting around big boobs! Next.....is to have all the water in my bathtub drain without having to move to let it flow from behind me! So there you go! Keeping those prayers coming your way for a speedy approval! Sue.....8 more days!

Hi Sue - This was the topic on my mind on my way to work! And I have to say that neither of your goals crossed my mind but they are good ones. I don't think I have worn a two hook bra since 6th grade. All those cute bras that never come in my size, especially with matching panties! That is a fun goal to think about. I also like the idea of taking a bath and having the water cover me and yes it would be nice for the water to circle freely!! I love getting others' ideas because as I fantasize about a new life on my way to work it gives me new ones to think about!! 8 days - that is great and that much closer to your goals coming true!! Thanks for the prayers - Stacey