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Husband moved back today. He is going to help me get my life back together again. I fell hard when he moved out. It is like I gave so much up and lost so much of myself. We are going to counseling tomorrow.. He is acting like the man I married. Maybe this is what we needed. I feel secure tonight. Am I weak. We worked outside all day. He took the day off for us to be together. He is being wonderful. Maybe us being apart is what we needed to find our love for each other. I just cant give him up without trying everything I can to make it work. 16 years is along time. Maybe now since he knows everything he will change his ways. He wants me to get some help. This surgery really does change things. Hugs all barb

Barb, You both have been through so many changes in the past year. Even though your husband is most likely thrilled with your weight loss, he might feel intimidated and feel that he is no longer good enough for you. So allow him to pamper you and show him some extra special attention as well. I will keep the both of you in my heartfelt prayers. I Love you and Hope and pray you can find a new and happier place in each others lives. Nothing is ever going to be the same.. Maybe you will find a place that will be better for the both of you. I wish you all the luck in the world. I am a hopeless romantic and believe in the power of prayer and true love Big Hugs Laura

Good for you Barb. I am glad you are giving it your all. I told my best friend the other day to listen to the words of the song "Breathe, Just Breathe" where it says "You're just as far in as you'll ever be out." I am so glad he came to his senses to see what he was so close to losing. My prayers are with you sweetie! Hugs, Darlene

I'm cool with it as long as we can still go out and party.

I'm glad you are trying again. We know better than anyone, nothing good comes easy. Counseling should help both of you heal. Best Wishes, Mel