Dh Moved out today
We decided this was best. He moved out. We decided to make this a civil divorce and split everything 50/50 and sell the house.And to remain friends. Im moving out in Aug. I feel releived but kind of scared at the same time. My family is very upset. Dad and sisters. But they dont walk in my shoes either. My family needs to mind their own business. My husband went to their house tonight to whine. Makes me mad. He is at his Parents house now.
Confused. But feel like I made a big step. Im really upset and sick to my stomach.
Barb
I know the feeling. Same as when I split with my husband.. That horrible wired feeling...lump in your stomach and the feeling that why can't the world stop for a while just until I can clear my head...it's the everything is happening so fast but time seems to go so slow....The one thought that got me through everything was...Now I can do anything I want.......If I want to pack up and go somewhere I can do it. if I want to cook onions for dinner, I can do it (my husband did not allow onions in the house because he hated the smell, so I was forbidden to eat them or cook with them for 16 years)..I can be the person that I want to be!!!!...These were the thoughts that got me through...Not that it lasted long once I met this guy and it is the repeat of my marriage now for 10 years the only difference is my bf is 17 years younger than me so he's a lot of fun to look at, even when we are fighting)...I thank you for being such a help (and inspiration) to me in the past year or two.. You have the whole world in front of you and your NEW life is just getting started! Take care.
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