But what about afterward?

Hiya everybody! I'm a newbie to this site, recently began (seriously) considering WLS. I haven't yet attended the seminar scheduled by the surgeon I'm considering, but I have read a lot of literature on the subject and most of the posts here. In my mind, there isn't any reason NOT to have the surgery, and it isn't even the surgery itself I am scared of. What's bothering me is the lifetime afterward. How will the things that cause me to overeat and eat poorly change after the surgery? I've always been an emotional, compulsive eater, seldom experiencing true hunger. How do I handle that after WLS? Do those feelings just.... go away? I also have a limited support system, and live alone in my home. I'm concerned that that might be an issue to contend with, especially immediately following surgery. There isn't really a way to fix that situation either. Is this enough of a reason to not have the WLS? I'd appreciate any help or suggestions at this time! Thanks! ~Patty~

Welcome Pattty, This surgery is only a tool. It helps you get started. As you know all of us are emotional compulsive eaters or we would not be here. I think what helped me is when I knew I had control. When I had the chance to look good and feel good for the first time in 10 years. I would never mess up this tool. It saved my life and taught me alot about my eating habits. I choose to not emotional eat. I refuse to go back to myself. Maybe you should seek counsling before the surgery to get this under control Best Wishes Barb

Patty: that's why OSU has you go through a psych eval. Therapy and the support groups do help you contend with the emotional issues. No they do not go away and sometimes you have new ones, with your new body! You are asking right questions and you already have some insight which is a BIG PLUS. As for help after surgery, it is a good idea to have a partner at one of the dietician meetings (if you go thru OSU there are 4 classes prior to surgery). I don't know how old you are or what type of insurance but home health services and even meals on wheels (they do pureed diets and special diets) may be able to help you. You should have someone check in on you and help out during the 1st week. Then you can push yourself a little more. There are resources out there so your concerns are valid but not necessarily reason enough not to have the surgery. Mel