For the WOMEN....

OK..this is a very personal subject and I know the men are going to read this so if you want to e-mail your answers direct I understand...I'm 9.5mths out and well wanted to know if anyone else has gone through this. I have talked to others and they said yes but I need more support. I am 42 and not sure if this is due to age or surgery or both...The others I spoke with said the surgery..but here is goes..I have NO sex drive. I don't want to be touched in any sexual way..is this normal did any of you go through it and if so how long did it last...HELP.......Pam

Hi Pam I have the opposite problem. Plenty of sex drive...just no takers. Sorry I can't help you. Sharyn

Pam, I have the sex drive. Just not with my husband. I dont want him to touch me. He has called me so many bad namin the past. Like fat_____ !!!! So I just cant get over that. and alot more other things. We are getting a divorce so I can move on with my life. He never had any kids. Maybe he can find someone and have a family. We are ust not meant to be. Take Care Barb

Hey Barb Sounds like we need to hit a bar and find some men to buy us drinks. Sharyn

Sharyn, Julie is trying to get us a concert party going in Kettering Oh !!! That is in dayton. Where do you live. Hugs Barb

Hey Barb I'm not far from dayton/Kettering. It's closer than driving to Cincy. What kind of concert? I don't know if I can do country, but I'm ready to party!

LOL Oh YESSSSS

Pam, How much weight have you lost. I would say your about at goal arnt you. I know your superbowl picture you looked so great !!!! Barb

Barb, thanks for the reply and I have been at goal for a while but am still on the loosing side. I have lost 157lbs now. Im still loosing they think Im going to be one of those people that looses to the lowest scale amount instead of the highest...and thats fine, I will just be a rail when I actually have the skin removal which I really need....Thanks ............Pam

Mine disappered after my hysterectomy last June. My GYN offered me meds to restore it but I opted to leave it alone. It doesn't bother me. Maybe you ought to talk to your doctor if it is a concern to you.