Im getting a divorce !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cant deal with this anymore. There is so much to the story. I dont love my husband anymore. I havent for many years !!!!!!!!!!I cant take it anymore. There is nothing there. he is being like a fruit today instead of a vegetable !!!! bAnyone want himmmmm. I will sell him to ya $1.00

I'm sorry that you are going through this Barb. For the life of me, I never understood how people could live in situations where they weren't happy. Perhaps the 2 of you can work it out and find happiness together, perhaps not, either way, I wish you the best. As for taking him for a buck, I prefer being alone. I don't want any drama in my personal life, a decision that I made years and years ago. I get enough drama with the men that I work with. Evil B*st*rds, most of them! Good luck!

Ann... I am so sorry to hear. I know you have been having problems for over a year now. I love my husband, but there are still issues. I think I am the crazy one, cause he is good to me, but I feel something is missing and there is someone else out there for me. I will keep you in my prayers sweetie. Love and Hugs Julie

Julie and cathy, Thanks for your support Julie and Cathy. I just cant go on like this !!!!! I need to feel this void in my life. I am so alone in this marraige. I need companionship. I need to laugh and to feel. To be myself. and not walk on egg shells all the time. Julie do what you feel will make you happy you only live once. It makes it so much easier when your married to a ass ----. Cathy you have it made girl. Your so independant. I use to be just like you for 16 years. and I loved it. Your right about the men at work. I use to put up with them when I was a machinist. They act like woman whining little BIt----. LOL I will give you all the scoop what is going on once I get thru this very stressful divorce. I hope it goes smooth. For some reason he wanted to take me fishing today. HUMMMMMM. I said no thank you. I dont want to be fish food. I need to watch him. This might turn him over the edge. I dont know what is going on in his head. I need to see a lawyer. We are going to need to sell. I do have something going on after the divorce. I will talk about that later. But read thru the lines..... Hugs to you both Barb

Like I have said before Ann.. we need to go out sometime. What part of OHIO are you from? I have a great support group here in Columbus that likes to go out and have fun. We went bowling Friday night. Last week they went and celebrated with me my one year anniversary. There is another board on here that is very supportive. I have been hanging out there for a couple of months. They accepted me with open arms even though I am married. It is the WLS Singles Board. I went to Kentucky 3 weeks ago and had a blast with these people. I even took the hubby and he was accepted with open arms too. I will be supportive in whatever you decide to do... your happiness is very important in the sucess of this surgery. Luckily my hubby is coming out of his hermit crab mode and is starting to want to join me in these functions. So right now things are getting somewhat better. Please go check out the WLS Singles sight. They are refreshing and a great group that can pick up your spirits. I love em. Hugs Julie

Send me the link. I am going to be SINGLE !!!!!! yeaahhhhhhhhhhhhh

Hey Julie What gives? You've never invited me out. Didn't you see the Pittsburgh pictures? I'm a party girl!! Sharyn

Julie I am from fairborn Ohio. I am going to columbus for a few nights next month. I am bringing my daughter up to get her Cosmotolgy license. I am her genie pig. We are getting a hotel and are planning to party a night up there. I live one hr from columbus. Maybe we can meet for drinks. I will let you know when. It will be so nice to meet you. You look so gorgeous !!!! Hugs Your way Barb

Sorry to hear things are not so good. But look at this way .... you can lose an extra 200 pounds by losing him. Good luck to you.

Hi Barb Sorry you're having so much trouble. But, and this is vey important - make sure you get the Bengals tickets! Love ya Sharyn PS You can party with me!! I'll be in Cincy next month.