Things have not been going so smoothly lately for me.  I find weight creeping back on and my support meetings less supportive because I've been told by the moderator that I bring "negativity" to the room!!!  go figure???  She wonders why I even "bother" coming, what I could possibly get out of it and she even mentioned (in front of the entire room no less) that she was going to talk to me about it???!!!!  I really have to contain myself because I didn't know that I had to talk only about the good things post-op instead of my trials on my journey.  If you are not in Disney Land mode always bragging about some monumental episode to sell the surgery to people who are not supposed to be at a POST-op meeting, then why bother having meetings at all???? 

The bottom line is that I know I need to get back on track but I no longer have trust and confidence in my surgeon's team to guide me after these kinds of comments.  Anyone can make a recommendation?  I will look into what I can.  Thanks for your help.