Dr Phil right now

A lady who lost 140 pounds with gastric bypass

And she looks great--and I totally understand why she flirts--she just can't get over the fact that she isn't invisible anymore. But she shouldn't hurt her husband and she shouldn't ignore his feelings! Marian S.C.

I agree. SHe has a right to enjoy the attention. She does need to be a little more considerate to her husbands feelings but....he seems very controling and he needs to work on his insecurities as well. I think as many men do , he had it easy before with her being heavy and not having confidence. He really never had to worry about these issues.

Hi Lisa! I'm a day late and a dollar short (as usual) But I watched Tyra Banks show today and she had people on that had surgeries that changed their appearances.Breast implants,gastric bypass ect.... The husban of the gastric bypass woman was having a hard time dealing with it.He was afraid that he would lose her to someone else.I think he too felt more secure when she was heavy. I say OH WELL !!! She deserves to be confident and look good And do all the things she wants to, that she couldn't do before.If you truely love and respect each other I'm thinking it could only make your relationship better. Just my thoughts On the other hand I'm sure there are some woman who start dressing way to sexy and start flirting way to much then I think a man has reason to be insucure.Yep, Huston we got a problem!!!! Darlene

I missed that one i would have liked to see it. I agree with you. It is so normal to want to go out and get attention. These men need to work on their issues. Some women of course take it to an extreme but again i cant blame them. It is a great feeling to be noticed for your good qualities and not just as the fat lady in the room!

very true--they both have some issues--but I would love to be able to flirt like that --just for a little while Marian S.C.