HI AMOS FAMILY I HAVE BEEN.....

Good Afternoon Every1: I have been away for quite some time. I dont even know where 2 begin. I hope every1 is okay, i sure am not :'). I feel awful , disappointed, so many emotions together. To make a long story short, since may 2005 to this date I have gained 18lbs. . I dont know what 2 do , i have given up! i am so depressed and stressed out that i am going I have not even gone to my one year checkup..... Love Mery 258/175/193

Mery, Hun I am so sorry to hear you are going throug such a rough time. ~Hugs~ I wish I had the answers you needed but all I can offer is my support and listen. Have you seen or talk to anyone abou this? Maybe taking some time and talking to a phyc might help you work on this. I know it is so very scary to think about putting all the weight you worked so hard to take off! please don't give up on yourself, I know you can do this and get back in the game! You put yourself first when you had the surgery now bring yourself back to the "first" again!!! YOU are so worth it hun ~hugs~ Email if you would like... Debra P

Mery, Hun I sent you an email back but it came back, all I did was reply so I am not sure why. Did you get it by chance? Let me know and I can resend it as well. ~hugs~ Debra P

Mery, I am unable to give you any advise because I am pre-op however I am hear for support #1 congrats with your weight loss up to date (and you look absolutly wonderful) #2 Take it one day at a time maybe come up with a routine (more excersise, protein, water etc.) #3 Strut your stuff like mentioned before you look great !!!!!! Daria

Thank you Daria, I will keep your advice in mind...