I need to vent...

You bet!!!!! I had open RNY and let me tell yall, I did this so I could be WELL, not wallow in any pain I may or may not have. I felt so great, I wanted to go back six day after my surgery. We are all UNIQUE and how we heal, both physically and mentally, is DIFFERENT for each and every one of us. That doesn't mean we need to say that others are full of crap because they didn't go through the same things that WE did. also? WHAT IS EXPECTED TENDS TO BE REALIZED. If you expect to be miserable, you are gonna get what you expect. Good luck and God Bless!

You bet!!!!! I had open RNY and let me tell yall, I did this so I could be WELL, not wallow in any pain I may or may not have. I felt so great, I wanted to go back six day after my surgery. We are all UNIQUE and how we heal, both physically and mentally, is DIFFERENT for each and every one of us. That doesn't mean we need to say that others are full of crap because they didn't go through the same things that WE did. also? WHAT IS EXPECTED TENDS TO BE REALIZED. If you expect to be miserable, you are gonna get what you expect. Good luck and God Bless!