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Just got back from the gym and doing my 1 1/2 hour workout. Not only did that workout make me feel so much better, but when I came home and read everyone's responses it really, really lifted my spirits even higher (for those who don't know the situation, see earlier posting). Three things I definitely agree on: 1) at 26, I do need to move! 2) I love the new, thinner me and have no complaints about me and had WLS for me 3) I do need to address this issue with my family once and for all.
The way I see it...I could move, be absolutely happy with me, but I am still human and they are still my family. Sitting them down, telling them how I feel and putting it out there is something I now realize I need to do. Heck while I'm at it, I should educate them on HIV/AIDS too. This way, if the insults keep up and they get to me, I can express that right in front of them and no longer have to go cry in the bathroom. People can't fix something if they don't know it's broken, right?
Thanks so much for all of your words of encouragement! I needed that...
I think that's a terrific idea. So many people have NO idea about either what WE, as WLS patients, deal with in our lives and further, they are clueless about HIV and AIDS. I think giving them a bit of education is an excellent idea. I'm glad you are feeling better now, Candie, and I think moving on with your life is an excellent idea.