Looking for some support

Hi everyone I am having a real hard time. I lost my brother in law 3 & 1/2 weeks ago, last week I lost a close friend and just today I lost one of my most beloved friends. I do not understand why, and just can't deal with much more. I know things happen for a reason but these people were only 37, 66, & 47 respectively. If everyone could please keep me in your thoughts and prayers I would appreciate it. Debbie

I dont know what to say...but my deepest sympathies to you during a very difficult time! YOUR IN MY THOUGHTS and PRAYERS! GOOD LUCK DEBBIE. LISA

Debbie, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. To loose a person is difficult but 3 loved ones has got to be unbearable. I feel for you. Sending you LOVE!!! Hugs*Kisses, Mary

Debbie, Hun I am so sorry for your loss, 3 so close together is horrible. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that God sees you through this rough time. If you need to chat just email me hun and I will be there for you....~hugs~ Take care.... Debra P

Oh Debbie, I'm so so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I am sending a huge bear hug your way for comfort. I question why with a lot of things that happen and one could drive themselves crazy pondering. We will never know why someone is taken from us too early or why people have such cold hearts to hurt other innocent people. I don't know you that well and I'm not one to "preach" but as I get older I seem to understand one thing better than when I was younger. A higher power. Whether you believe in God or something else. I know it has helped me feel comforted when I question things. I believe they are in a better place and incredibly happy. I believe we were to learn something from each one of them that passed through our lives. My mother suffered for quite a few years before God took her home. I tried the best I could to care for her and she made some things pretty difficult. I would always ask why was she like that, why can't he make her suffering go away and why did I still love her even after the way she treated me? I finally let God just worry about the answers like that and I stopped. Its a very freeing and uplifting feeling. There....I'm done preaching. Good luck my friend. I hope you find comfort in these words and the words of the others. Nothing like the support you can find here.

That is alot to handle all at once...you're in my prayers.

My dearest Debbie, I haven't had a chance to talk to you since this happened yesterday. My heart aches for your broken heart. You know that you are in my daily thoughts and prayers. I just don't know what to say, except that I am so sorry for all this loss you have experienced. I pray that from here on out things will get better for you. I love you my friend. Deb