Where are all the good men?
OK as a men i'll answer that if u answer something for me. Are women ever happy with the man they got? Women are the same way. The first thing they look for is how a man looks, then how much money he makes. Men just know what they are looking for, if we like a big girl we go after big girls, if we like a tall women, we go after tall women. we don't bet around the bush wasting are time if you're not the women that we want. But yes there are alot of good men out there but women all want bad boys and ******** that what women want. Women only want good guys when they have had alot of ******** in there life, then they want the good guy to sweap them off there feet, but after a couple of years of your man taking care of u and you never wanting anything in the world what do most women do, cheat on there good guy from some @ss hole Drug dealing Thug. And when that retart gets you Pregnet and dumps you what do u want, your nice guy back. So when you ask if there's any good men out there, stop looking at the @ss hole with all the dumb @ss lines and look at the guy with the book in his hand, peaking over the pages tryin to get a peak at you...
Well, Dwight, in part you are right, but unfortunately, way over the line. I, too, get agitated with the how tall are you and how much do you weigh BS. I ain't too tall and I weigh just enough. I will never be a Barbie, but so many expect us to be. You lump all of us women into the same stew pot, which isn't fair at all. One bad apple and all that, right? I haven't found a man in years who wasn't pre-occupied with "Wow, baby, if you would just lose a few pounds, you would be something else!" I always *was* something else!
And where are those guys now that I look like a million bucks????? still chasing Susy Creamcheese, the 20 something blonde bimbette. One day, I will find the good guy and it will be totally by accident, but it will be the guy who isn't asking me "how much do you weigh?"
Have a wonderful week!
I'm not tryin to be an @ss about things but in the same tocken that i can't say all women are like that you can't say all guy only like a girl for her body. Yes about 98% of us do think that way, but the 2% of us don't really get that much of a chance from women, and when we do we just get played and dumped on(just like 100% of women) So i'm not sayin all women are like that, but u know just like i do that u have some girlfriends that only chace guys with nice cars and have those guy friends that they know likes them but they only want to be "Friends" until A. that ********crews her over or b. she need him to do something for her. This guy that is such a great guy and is a great friend BUT.....
So just like you don't want me to lump all you women in one group don't lump us 2% with the other 98%
First of all I never go for a guy's looks or how much money they make.. I make my own money thank you very much.. I don't need a man to support me.. I just feel like men look for the skinny girls with the blond hair and big chests..
I haven't found a man in a few months who likes me for my personality and not my weight.. (Well besides me ex fiance' but I broke up with him)
So where do all the good men hide and where can I find one?
~Hugs~
Cathy
Thankfully not all men are like that. I met my husband 7 years ago when I weighed 402 lbs. We met in an AOL chat room. We talked online, then on the phone, then he came to NY to visit, (he was from SC). I really think that if we didnt have 6 months online and on the phone to get to know one another that maybe I wouldnt have caught his eye.
He is truly the love of my life and I wish I had met him 25 years ago.
Please dont give up, there ARE good men out there!
Laurie
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