Happy Wednesday All

Good Morning my AMOS Family ~hugs~ Just wanted to stop in and see how you all are doing on this rainy, chilly and blah Wed.... I thought this is Spring time not fall... Well I hope you all are doing great.. For me I am trying to deal with this stress the best I can and at times it still gets to me, that feeling of jumping write out of my skin... Please everyone send some prayers for me to send me calming vibes... QUESTION: How did your relationships with others change after your surgery? Did you come across some that are jealous? Some that became better after your surgery? What ever the case may be.... I am hoping with my hubby that it will make us stronger in the fact that I can go out and do so much more, he loves to hike and bike but doing either right now it so very hard. Looking forward to that for sure.. Thanks all for posting and answering...~hugs~ Debra P

Good Morning my Angelette I am doing well but this rain is starting to get to me ya know! Anyways my relations ship with my Dh and kids has remained the same. As for some people here at work they swore in the beginning that I had changed and I asked a few people "Do you think I am a different person than I was before?" They all said no and who said that but I wasn't going to say who. I don't feel I have cahnged. The only thing that has changed is I have lost 115lbs and I became a healthier person that's all. ANd I have learned to Love my self ! Well I hope you and everyone here has a great day!!!!!!! Only 20 days to go WOOOOOOO HOOOOOO here @ work and I am a free woman from this place I will talk to you soon. :wave{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} Evelyn 247/152/-115 Past goal and feeling GREAT!!!!!!! dance:

Evelyn, Hello my Angel ~~huggers~~ Yeah the rain is getting to me also, just wanting to sleep... Hey but I hear that tomorrow and Friday look good so far.....~crossing fingers~ Maybe we will get some sun... Yeah I guess there are always some that feel jealous instead of being happy that you have a better, healthier lifestyle now. I say to hell with them..... 20 days until you are free...YEAH..... I will be a week out if all goes well when you leave work.... Silly things we think about when we have a date.....OMG you have to see when I see something on TV or in print that has June 6th as a date.... Well take care hun and thank you as always....luv ya ~~~hugggers~~~ Debra P

Just stopping by to say Hello and Happy Wednesday to you and everyone here. I was going to go walk to broadwalk today. But due to the weather, I think I"m better off staying indoors. So I shall go walk the mall. TTFN maria

Maria, Hun thanks for stopping in and saying hello...~Hugs~ Go have some fun walking the mall, see I could never do that, I would want to stop and look.... Take care Debra P

Debra Good Morning !! Good Morning to you too Eve !! Sooo good question for the day, My answer, nahhh I have not really changed that mush.......I mean, I have in some ways...........more confident......more sure of myself.....maybe a bit more ****y....but I have always been that way......LOL Sadly enough, there are a few people I feel like I have to hide my ahppiness from, I never wanted my journey to hurt anyone.....or make them feel that I am in ANY way better than them, soo for that matter, I have hide my happiness from a couple people I work with and ......sadly enough, a couple of my sisters. I KNOW they are proud of me......I know they are happy for me.....I just know how unhappy they are inside and I dont want them to be sad..... one of them comes accross as being jealous......very jealous........but I know it and I see it .....soooo I hide my feeling, as to not hurt her. I was raised with 4 sisters and I was coddled and spolied by 4 sisters and 2 parents)....LOL I would never do anything to hurt any of them.....and in a weird sort of a way......I think my happiness hurts them........to a certin point.....Soooooo I just TRY to hide those beaming smiles that come off my face now......LOL I dont have a hubby.....or even a BF for that matter, but on a daily bases I read how it does change things.......I hope that you will beable to enjoy more with your husband.........more of the outdoors things that will in the ned only draw ya both closer !! Have a GREAT Day !! Love Ya Bren

Brenda, Yeah I am sure you have to change a bit because you become more outgoing and sometimes people take that for being stuck up now.... well once I am losing they can call me what ever they want because I am going to feel SOOOOOO GOOOOOD.... Well thanks for sharing hun.... Debra P

Hey Debbie, I am doing ok, except the fact that Crystal run can not get me in for sleep test until the end of JUNE!!!!! I am so mad! anyways as for your other question. I have noticed a few people i have told that i am having surgery are a little jealous. Alot of them are overweight but not MORBID overweight so they only really need to loose 20 lbs... I don't care if they are jealous i am doing this for me NOT them! Have a Great day Kristen

Kristen, Hello hun....~Hugs~ Well make sure you let them know that if they have any cancellations to give you a call..... I will keep you in my prayers that they move that date hun...~hugs~ Yeah they are just not getting that we have to do this surgery because it is more then a couple of pounds we need to lose and it is very hard to do that and keep it off! You think the way I do, I really could care less of someone is jealous of me because I am sure I will feel so much better and you are right, it is for ME ONLY..... Take care and thanks for sharing Debra P

Hi All! YAY! I got my date! I am so happy today despite the nasty rainy cold weather! Thanks all for your kind support and friendship! I look forward to joining the losing side with you! -Dee