Having surgery in a couple of days.
I not going to wish you good luck, YOU don't need it! You were strong enough to make a very tough decision for the love of yourself. And I have no doubt you are strong enough to sail right thru. A woman that strong only needs God's Speed. So I'll wish you God's Speed, for a safe and successful surgery and a speedy recovery. Know that someone else out there will be thinking about you on April 7th. -- Tameka E.

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on 4/4/05 10:08 pm - MT
on 4/4/05 10:08 pm - MT
Christine,
I am still pre-op but I can understand the feeling, I am hoping to get a date in May but I think it might be June. I am just holding my own right now, I hate waiting.....
I just pray that God grants me calmness when I get closer to my date because I am already worried about everything, well at least thinking about everything.....
I wish you the very best hun and I send my prayers your way....
Take care
Debra P






WOW I THOUGHT I WAS A WIERDO..LOL..LOL BECAUSE I NEVER HAD THIS FEELING BEFORE FIRST I WAS SO HAPPY WHEN I GOT A DATE AN APPROVED THEN I GOT EXTREMLY NERVES SO I AM NOT ALONE THANK GOD. I AM HAVING SURGERY MAY 3RD SO I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH ONLY THING I CAN SAY IS TRUST IN GOD!!!!!!!!!!! YOU WILL BE FINE.
TRACEY,
wow! You have the same feelings many people have! My surgery is going to by 5/23 and I got the date yesterday. I am scared! I keep reminding myself that I see the same post again and again and then I see the person post that they made it and they are soooo glad... I watch them lose, I go to their profiles and see how they dealt with it. I do not have any WLS friends and I am alone. See if you can find some local support. Please post afterwards so I can learn form you! You will be fine! Dream about how great you are going to look- fantasize about that new outfit, oh- the payoffs! Thay is what I do- I look at WLS before and after pictures, then I look at the high heels I bought....