Why are people so negative??

Good Morning to all my sunshines, I know I have not been around as much as before, but I am caught up at work and at home with the kids. I am so pissed off on how negative people can be. Last night I went out with my kids and cousins to eat, while we were waiting, others would turn around and look at me like I had 3 faces, don't get me wrong, is not the first time, however, people can be so rude because of your weight, you see, I am confident and carry myself well, however it bothered my cousins, the reason is they are males and they sure look fine.. , therefor, is to others disbelief that a BIG girl can be with fine man. Ya know.. Oh well I kept on, but could not hold myself back, you see I'm a person that goes straight to the point and get things right, boy do I have a mouth , those who know me, know... SO yes I did approach these chicken heads and told them right in their face to pick up their mouths and yes it was true a BIG momma like me could and was with these fine men and could not content to have one man so came with three.. I mentioned to them how funny life can be, you see I rubbed in their faces that I can loose this weight, however, they could not do a damn old thing with their faces and how ugly they were.. Boy did I had a laugh and then a good meal.. They were lucky I was with my kids cuz I sure could of them heffas.. I hate this stereo type of big people, however, when you do take a stand and decide that you will have the WLS, these same people that put you down are the ones that tell you not to do it.. I have come to realize that they are hating and scared at the same time.. You see I have never seen an ugly big woman, we are all beautiful and then to have this WLS, please they are scared.. Oh well NY's sorry I just had to vent.. Thanks for the time.. Hope everyone is having a great day... & Mercedes

Oh I totally agree. That, and they watch you eat. I mean, how rude is that, for crying out loud????? "Ugly" can be worn even by those who are physically pretty. Ain't it a shame they don't know how ugly they appear?

Please being rude is no problem, I sure can return the same.. I just don't like the stare thing. Ya know.. However, God don't like ugly so I'll leave it to him after I've done my piece.. lol.. Thanks.. Mercedes

Good for you Mercedes!!!!!!! I know what you mean! Ya know what and now that I have lost the weight I see the difference in other ways like people will say hello and open doors and things like that and I know berfore they would have never even given me the time of day. It makes me sick to my stomach to see people acting this way. Shame on them!!!!!!! Have a wonderful day!!!!!!! Evelyn

Evenlyn, I know how it is, I've lost weight before and people do act different, is like BIG girls don't exist.. I use to love it when guys who use to make fun of me and call me a cow and stuff try to pick me up when I went down on weight, I use to just turn around and say HELL NO IM A COW.. MOOOOOOO.. They would look at me like I was and then realize it was me.. Is all good I love it.. Mercedes

You go girl and give em hell, tell it like it is Christine

Hey Chritine, Ya know how it is, snap your fingers twice, brush your shoulder off and do the damn walk... Mercedes

Oooowwwww you are sizzling, strut your self girlfriend, look out Merecdes is hot Christine

From one big mouth in-your-face sista to another, I know you gave it to 'em, girl and I'm not HARDLY mad atcha!!!! I am used to that stupidness too. I have a lot of good looking male friends, I have a good looking man now and I have had quite a few good looking men in my past so I get these looks that say "How the hell could she snag HIM?" Some nerve. But I am not above looking a chick straight in the face and say "He's fine, ain't he? I guess he prefers substance AS WELL AS style and yes, I have both." They be looking at me like "No this fat bdidn't?" And I'm like OH YES THIS FAT BDID!!! Eat it, love it and choke on it!!! Hahahahahahahahahha!

Hey Baby Girl, Girl I called you as soon as I got home from this, please I was pissed off, but then I brushed it off.. No one answered.. Figured you was out cold turkey.. ... Ya know me, can't hold my mouth nor my fist, but I am too much of a lady to act like that, plus I sure gave them a warning... .. They were kind of scared when I did so they went on their way.. Ya know how it is.. So how you been? I called you on Monday and G told me you was out.. Miss you baby girl.. Talk to you soon.. Love Ya Mercedes &