Good day shot to heck!!!

Phatty
on 7/29/08 8:45 am - North Greenbush, NY
I guess I just need to vent... my day started out really well - had my 9 month follow up & everything went great!! They said I was doing wonderfully & all of my bloodwork came back perfect!!! It was a beautiful sunny day & I decided to make the most of it... here's when it went to hell...

I decide since Michael's was having a sale on their frames I'd mosey over there after my appt to pick up a few & see what other goodies I could find!! As I was walking from my car to the store some a-hole decided to back up into me!!! Yup - he freakin' hit me!!! I was yelling for him to stop as was another woman. He just didn't get it!!! He yelled at me & told me I should've moved out of his way!!! WTF??? I didn't even see him in the car & was in the middle of the trunk by the time I realized the car was moving!!! It was a big car & he was so close to me I had no place to go!!! I told him he should've turned around & looked before steppin gonthe gas - he would've seen me!!! To which he replied - "yeah, how could anyone miss that fat ass?!!!" Ok, normally the fat ass comments don't get to me but today they did & as he was speeding away he called me a fat f**k!!!

I know they're only words & god knows I've been called those & worse before but for some reason today they really hit me hard!! He totally ruined my plans for the day & put me back into the mode that pre-op would've sent me to McD's drive thru & then maybe BK after that!!!! I didn't do either & thankfully I wasn't hurt!! We did call the cops (someone was good enough to grab his license plate) & they were going to have a chat with him!! I have been bummed all afternoon & it ****** me off that I allowed this SOB to ruin my day!!!

I guess I feel better now just getting it out but damn him to hell!!! I hope he gets what deserves... twicefold!!!!

Hopefully everyone else faired better today!!!
Thanks for listening!!
Cece
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass... it is about learning how to dance in the rain!"
inkerdoodles
on 7/29/08 9:34 am - Schenectady, NY

Cece... how dare he... He knew he was in the wrong and just wanted to get away... You should have fallen to the ground screaming my back my back.. That would have served him right. And then after he got the ticket you could say.. Oh I think I'm ok now....

The good thing is Karma will bite him in is big fat A__ soon... :) Don't let him get you down.. Some people were raised by parasites... And even they give parasites a bad name.

Hugs,  

Lisa...   HW/ 314.7   SW/ 280   CW/ 180ish

RNY ~ 01/25/2008 Terrence Clarke (Ellis Hosptial Bariatric Center).... Lower Body Lift with butt lift and upper thigh lift ~  07/14/2009 Sanjiv Kayastha (K Plastic Surgery) -- LOVE IT !!!!

Phatty
on 7/29/08 9:36 pm - North Greenbush, NY
Lisa,
Thanks!! I had thought about hitting the ground but I am sure the SOB wouldn't have stopped!!! We had a hard time getting him to stop while I was upright & he could see me!! I did think about flying up on the hood of trunk... ahhh, think about the damage I could've done!!! I did bang on the backend of his car... a lot!!!!

My sister & brother have offered to be his "karma"!!! Yup - the enforcers!!! He's lucky they aren't all local!!! They are all taller than me & with my brothers running about 6'4"+  they can be very intimidating!!!!

Cece
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass... it is about learning how to dance in the rain!"
jdm511
on 7/30/08 6:13 am - Ballston spa, NY

Cece,

Sadly you could do much less damage now than you could have a year ago if you had jumped on his hood.  On second thought I will say that is a good thing.  Just use a tire iron to cause the damage.  

Jim
Phatty
on 7/30/08 8:44 pm - North Greenbush, NY
I know - I used to joke that people would never hit me because it would do more damage to their cars than me but this car was a boat... a big ol' Lincoln so I'd think I'd be the more damaged one this time around!!!! Maybe I'll have to start carrying that tire iron in my purse!!!
Cece
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass... it is about learning how to dance in the rain!"
(deactivated member)
on 7/29/08 10:04 am - Porter Corners, NY

Sounds to me like that man needs a GROUP HUG!!

 

Invite him to group sometime..nd I will explain to him in detail the need to show compassion towards

 

a) ladies

b) WLS patients

c) people

 

 

Phatty
on 7/29/08 9:38 pm - North Greenbush, NY
My brother & sister offered to give him that "hug"!!!

He didn't strike me as the type that would benefit from talking... he seems like he's the type who is always right & it's his way or no way!! I pray if he has kids & grandchildren they are better human beings than he is!!!

Cece
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass... it is about learning how to dance in the rain!"
Lori G.
on 7/29/08 12:33 pm - Troy, NY
you should have gotten the jerks plate and called the police on the butt munch!!!!!
Phatty
on 7/29/08 9:41 pm - North Greenbush, NY
Oh we did!! There was a wonderful woman & her 11 yr old daughter who were yelling at him with me & the daughter had sense enough to jot the plate # down!!! The cops were going to pay him a visit!!!! So if nothing else he knows I wasn't kidding around!!!
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass... it is about learning how to dance in the rain!"
rosemary52
on 7/29/08 8:36 pm - NY
Cece,

OMG...thank God you are ok...and please don't let some IDIOT ruin your wonderful accomplishment.  You are such an inspiration to us all.  Nobody tells a story like you!

Rosemary
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