Devastated

ravenwing229
on 8/14/07 6:10 am - Newfield, NY
I had to go to the DSS office today in order to file some paperwork with child support enforcement and there were a few people in line ahead of me.  Well, the woman in line in front of me turned to me and asked if I was having twins, then proceeded to involve her daughter in the conversation, and both agreed that they had never gotten as big as me when they were pregnant....I am so depressed, humiliated, and feeling like total S4!#...I have lost 65lbs and people still look at me and think I am pregnant...I am so discouraged.  I didn't even have the opportunity to point out their mistake as they were called next and went back into an office....I feel so ugly and bad about myself right now, and wonder if I will ever look normal...it hurt so much, I sat down when I got home and bawled my eyes out...just had to tell someone...thanks for being here.

"the best and most beautiful things in life cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt in the heart"...Helen Keller
Carrotstick
on 8/14/07 6:29 am - Astoria, NY
Why people feel so free to comment about such personal matters to others will always be beyond me.  I am so sorry that you had to put up with their ignorance. 65 pounds of weight loss is absolutely incredible!  You're clearly working hard and seeing results and should be proud and commended.  I can only hope that I can manage what you've accomplished. The hell with the Judgy McJudgersons out there.
fatmoother
on 8/14/07 7:32 am

Personally, I would have told her it was triplets by 3 different fathers and let her figure it out!

ravenwing229
on 8/14/07 8:26 am - Newfield, NY
 Belly Laugh  Laughing 1 ROTFL  Laughing 2 Smile  Roll   Thanks I needed that !!!!Big Hug

"the best and most beautiful things in life cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt in the heart"...Helen Keller
Chelle5774
on 8/15/07 1:41 pm - Apalachin, NY
LMAO!
minnielover
on 8/14/07 11:32 am - buffalo, NY
I'm sorry that people are such ignorant A holes. Congratulations on your weight loss thus far. That reminds me of  last week when I went to the doctor with my son and the doc comes in the room and said to me I thought you had surgery. I was only 5 weeks out. people don't have any kuth. Sheila
cheri24iv
on 8/14/07 11:40 am - Hamilton, NY
OMG I am so sorry that happened!  What a couple of F(&)*^^)* idiots!  First off, you and I have met and there is NO way you looked pregnant when we met at the hospital, much less at -65 lbs!  Ignore them, sweetie!!!  They're obviously ignorant POS!  I think you're beautiful both inside and out!  Do not let them dictate your life of deflate your excitement on how dog gone well you're doing!  Brush them off as ignorant!  I love ya bunches!!!  (((((HUGSSSS))))
ravenwing229
on 8/14/07 11:14 pm - Newfield, NY
I love you sweet Cheri! Thank you.

"the best and most beautiful things in life cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt in the heart"...Helen Keller
cheri24iv
on 8/15/07 7:33 am - Hamilton, NY
Smoocheroonies
armra1967
on 8/14/07 1:39 pm - Lakewood, NY
OMG People are so insensitive, ignorant. I am really sorry for you to have had this happen. Sending you hugs, lots & lots of hugs!!

      
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