NYers RAWK!
Okay NYers! I was just doing some reading on the main board and criminies, folks can get downright mean-spirited over there! I appreciate the honest and informative, straight-from the hip responses to everyone's questions here.
If someone's doing something they shouldn't be, you tell them. They aren't coddled and cajoled, but aren't beat up for making bad choices either. They know they are off-track and come here for a gentle shove, that firm but caring reminder of the basics they've been ignoring.
Everyone's opinions are valid and should be expressed, but to argue with each other just for the sake of proving something proves you can argue, that's it. Arrgh!
I so appreciate you all, your openness, honesty, tolerance, and team spirit!!