just cant deal!!!

my nephew died sunday morning from complicaions of diabetes..he was 32!! he was not overweight he was tall and thin..maybe he just didn't take his disease seriously enough...we had not heard from him and he missed a family gathering so we went to his apartment and thats when we found him and he was dead...no warning no NOTHING!!!! its just such a shock!! I dont know how to deal with it I dont want to eat or exercise or anything...I just wish this week was not Christmas!!!! I just wondered if anyone else has had something bad happen after surgery and how did u cope..I cant keep anything down food wise!! thanks all, Jean

Jean, I am so sorry to hear that you lost your nephew. The only thing I can say is that he was called home to celebrate the birth of Christ in person! I know that may not help but God has a reason for calling one home to him. He is not suffering and gets to celebrate the best Christmas he has ever had. I will keep you in my prayers. Again I am very sorry you lost your loved one. Steph

Hi Jean, I am so sorry for the loss of your nephew. When I am stressed I can't eat anything either. Try drinking your calories. Try some cheddar cheese soup and some yogurt. Make sure you stay hydrated. Once you are feeling better try eating some mushy foods. My prayers are with you and your family. Mona

Hi Jean my name is Mary I read your post the other night and thought how awful I sure would't know what to say to you Now its my turn to ask you how do you do it My father in law was killed in a trucking accident the next night the day after I came home He lives in Pa and I can't make the trip with my husband and will be alone for the next 10 days or so so any thing you can offer will be a help Thank you take care of yourslef thanks you Mary