Emotional
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
Take your time and be patient with yourself. This journey is a long one, no hop skip and a jump. More like an RV ride across the country (twice lol).
Good luck and congrats on the start of your journey,
Audra
Right now it is because I am not losing a single pound so I understand. I spent about 3 days swearing I had made the biggest mistake of my life and questioned everything I did. It is still hard but it seems to level off a bit each day and then you will have another bad day but I think it will be fewer and far between. Although trust me I am in the same boat. I am hear if you want to sound off to and whine with me. Huggggssss
Danielle
So i brought it up to the doctor. I was like give a pill or something i'm done.. I'm suppose to be happy and excited about the new me, yet i'm not.. I hate life right now.. What did i let you do to me..
HE explained it to me, as if i had lost a family member.
WE go through mourning aspects of life..
We Are emotional due to hormones, ragging PMS due to hormones(nice right)
we get depress because we broke off a life time long friend ship with food, then the rest of the emotions that come with mourning the lost of someone..
Once he put it like that i started to understand.. I wasn't crazy. At about 6 months is when i started to notice my body changing, and the sun came out from the dark ass cloud i had been living under..
Chin up ladies.. The first few months are so rough,but it is so so worth it in the End..
Annmarie
There are only a couple of things that are different since surgery and this is one of them.
If there is a super sensitive switch, surgery turned it on for me! Being overweight all my life I developed a thick skin early. Kept emotions hidden. You could never make me cry.
After surgery, I cried at ANYTHING! You mentioned crying at the hat falling. It's your hat but I would have cried too!
I am almost 4 years out and I am better but I am still more sensitive and prone to cry at things I never would have thought twice about. Seems I shed my thick skin with the weight.
Hang in there! Sometimes tears are good for the soul!
If I am gonna eat like a fat girl, then I gotta workout like a skinny girl!
Valerie