OT: I think I need a hug...

I'm so sorry for you.  You are always great encouragement for everyone.

No words are going to totally comfort you but I sure hope that this BIG hug does. 
((((((((Barbara C)))))))))

Thanks Marcy!

I wish I were in Raleigh! I would give you a big hug! You are very loved by all of us here!  

Thank you!

((((((((Big hug stretching from New Bern over to Raleigh)))))))  Just don't give me your cold germs.  Stress is a horrific source of depression.  I remember not long after I got married (first marriage at age 38) I got overwhelmed with so many things I got very depressed.  I went into my doctor's office, stood in the corner of the examining room and balled my eyes out.  I think I scared the doctor I was so pitiful.  He put me on an anti-anxiety medicine I think.  That was many years ago.  I'm fine now, but I remember that feeling all too well!!  It was terrible.

Take care.  Get over your cold, relax, sleep,  and deal with the rest later.

Meredith,

Thanks for your caring and understanding.

Hi Barb,

Do you need a lunch out or anything like that?  I'd be glad to give you a hug!  You can even come by and see my messy house.  :) 

I'm sure your daughter will change her religious perspective 100 times before she settles into one.  My first thought was how great it is that she can come to you with this.  I never could've told my parents and they still don't know how far my beliefs have "strayed" from what I was taught as a kid.  Being there to listen and share your perspective at the right times is the best gift you can give her.  You're being a good mom!! 

Good idea to put off your b-day 'til you feel better.  My dd had a cold and headache yesterday and missed school. 

Give me a call if you'd like to chat - I'd love it!  I'll pm you my phone number. 

((((hugs))))

Hi Vicki,

Thanks so much for reaching out and understanding.... Not just about the depression, but about the issues that are impacting it.

To be honest, I'm actually 'sicker' today than I was yesterday, but hopefully, that will get better soon.

I appreciate your hand in friendship and understanding more than you know... or maybe you do.

Thanks again,

(((((((((HUG)))))))) Barb. I can't offer any advice that you probably don't already know about how to deal with your cold but I hope you soon get over it. I absolutely hate to get sick at any time but I am sure it is even less pleasant right now. Drink your fluids and get as much rest as you can and the rest will fall into place.

thanks annie!