is this normal?
Sandra,
Don't worry. Just count your blessings. Many people do come through this with relatively little, if any problems, but to be honest more people will comment or request advice when they struggling. The fact that you are not struggling doesn't mean that it isn't going to be effective or that you will regain. The weight loss will occur almost no matter what you do in the first year. You may be able to impact the percentage of your excess weight loss with additional exercise and compliance, but to be quite honest many don't exercise and are not compliant and lose a significant amount of weight anyway during the first year. However, those who do not work to make necessary lifestyle changes during this honeymoon period have a much higher likelyhood of regaining the weight that they lost. Soooooo, enjoy your good fortune and make it a point to put into place a healthy lifestyle that includes regular exercise ... i.e., moving at least 30 minutes a day and working in some resistance work several times a week when you Dr okay it, and find ways to identify and deal with unhealthy eating triggers because eventually you will be able to eat more and may well be able to eat some of things that can so easily get us into trouble. Finding ways to identify over-eating, grazing, and comfort eating and then ways to manage those issues will do the most to guarantee you long-term success in this amazing journey. I have found that the book and workbook by Dr. Judith Beck called the "Beck Diet Solution" have gone a long way towards helping me identify and manage my behaviors.
Wishing you continued success,
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
Hi Sandra,
I have found that it'**** or miss with Barnes and Noble. I'd call to see if they had it in stock. It comes as a book and an accompanying workbook. Each sold separately. I have found the workbook more often than the book. You can find it online though... Check Amazon.
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
Hi Sandra,
I really do know what you mean and when it comes to books, I generally tend to prefer to shop in person, but when a book a little hard to find, then I'll resort to Amazon or the like.
Good luck and happy shopping,
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
I too have had it very easy (knock on wood)...I eat whatever my family eats. If they have spaghetti, then I have spaghetti. If they have steak, then I have steak. Everyone is right...Everything is in moderation. I do have the occasional Hershey kiss, but usually just one, not the entire bag like before. My pouch fills up so quick that two or three bites of anything feels like too much. Before surgery I went through the drive thrus for breakfast every day...now my husband goes through and I never order anything for myself...I allow myself to have only 1 bite of whatever he has and that's the limit. I can't say I've never dumped because I have on two occasions...one time it was on a lil bit of McDonalds icecream and the other was on a lil bit of a Wendy's Frosty...Um, neither of those liked me and I was painfully sick for 3-4 hours after that...Weird huh? considering I can eat sugar without any problems.
I'm 5 1/2 months out and down a total of 93 lbs. I can't even lift the amount of weight I've lost...LOL
Good luck to you and keep your head in the game...You're sure to win!!!
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Too blessed to be stressed!
Michele
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