Very personal question (you've been warned!)

Well since I'm not getting any right now....I'll throw my 2 cents in....Go to your local "specialty shop" and find something related to the Kama Sutra....it's got positions that most of us have never heard up.  There's bound to be something in there that provides you with relief from your new found bones!  There's more I would say but since you're already blushing, I'll keep this PG-13.  I would offer some variations for you to try, not that I can speak from experience with them but there may be one you haven't tried.  If you care to know more, just send me a message and I'll reply rather than posting here. 

No people, I'm no expert and I plead the fifth on how I know what I know!  I wasn't always a good girl and sometimes my halo leans to the left. 

No change for me. I still have my STUPID HERNIA in the way. I sure hope that adjustment opens up new possibilities.  I want NEW POSSIBILITIES!!!!!  My DH and I deserve it. We both enjoy it but a earth shattering experience would be great!
I'm blushing
myrtis

You ladies are the greatest!!!!  I have worried myself silly ever since I posted this because it is so personal to me and kind of embarrassing too!!!  But I really, really, really appreciate all the replies and suggestions you ladies have provided to me.  Boy, what a problem to have, huh?  I believe my problems are probably a combination of just about everything that everyone has  mentioned.  I've never been comfortable with my body at any weight and I guess I just assumed that that would improve as the weight came off.  Scott loves me for me and he is constantly wanting to love my body too so for that I am extremely grateful.  He constantly tells me how beautiful I am and he says I am sexy now just as I would be at any size.  He's just the greatest and I want to enjoy our sexual relationship as much as he does.  I guess I'll just have to work harder on that. 

Thanks again for all your responses.  And thank you for not making me feel like a heel for posting on such a sensitive matter.  I hope I didn't offend anyone!  I love you all!

Hugs,
Donna

Don't know if you've been to the OH sex before and after board, but here's the link.  Don't know if there will be anything there to answer your question, but it's worth a look.  It's entertaining in any event....

www.obesityhelp.com/forums/sex_before_and_after_wls/a,messag eboard/board_id,5369/