Okay, since so many mentioned a Beach trip...... lets get some ideas in...

new-beginning
on 10/5/08 5:08 am

Myrtle Beach or Wilmington both sound good so to me it doesn't make a difference.   From the Charlotte area, i think Myrtle Beach is closer (from what i heard) but either one doesn't make a difference.  I think May would be a great time to go as it would already be getting warmer out but the huge crowds aren't there and the prices are usually lower i think. 

I have been at a resort like you describe above and they are awesome.   Keep us posted!

Pam

~~Monika is Leaving
the building~~

on 10/5/08 5:16 am - Wake Forest, NC
May would be great too.... but with Harley Bike Week and then Black Bike Week following that it would be tough.  *giggle... I hope to be there anyway for Black Bike Week without the kids but....

I won't rule it out either.  *smile*......

Granted Wilmington is closer for me.... I prefer Myrtle Beach ..... *grin & smile*


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new-beginning
on 10/5/08 5:19 am

What everyone decides is fine.  My hubby and i will be there.   Think it would be awesome to get a big group of us together.   As long as we have plenty of advance warning so we can get off work and get dogs taken care of...it would be great.

Pam

Barbara C.
on 10/5/08 6:17 am, edited 10/5/08 6:18 am - Raleigh, NC

Monika,

THanks for taking the bull by the horns and proposing this. I also appreciate your getting pricing. It helps a lot and from previous events, it seems that if we are going to do a beach thing, most folks want to stay beachfront. I sure know that I do.

In all honesty, I'm much more likely to do one that on the NC coast just because of the cost of gas, time spent driving and the likelyhood we might have a few more north-western NC folks attend. I had talked with Melinda (ECUMindy) about trying to put something together, but I'd be glad to work with you or we can do separate events.

We've done this once before, with to be honest, less than stellar results. I guess the good thing that came from that was learning from the school of hard knocks.

It's not always as easy said as easy to done 'live' with folks that you only know virtually.

We had issues w/some folks 'flaking' out and leaving the rest of us holding the bag. There weren't that many left so the bag was kind of heavy, if you get my drift. So it would be best if did something that REQUIRES a non-refundable deposit so that we don't have that kind of an issue again.

We were talking about possibly doing a Friday, Saturday, Sunday event. Not all would have to participate all days. We probably would rent a condo, or two, or three... depending on interest.

Some of the things we did last time, that we might want to consider this time were

Clothes swap

Pot Luck Dinner

Walk on the beach

We could also see about some other activities, such as bowling, minature golf, Zumba dancing, things that might allow 'activity' for all levels of fitness.

We could do some scrapbooking since there seems to be quite a few scrapbookers

... not everyone needs do everything, we could pick and choose.

I have a survey tool that I can use to survey folks interests, dates, etc... I found that off-season rates are really very good and we could probably see about doing something this fall maybe late Oct or Early Nov. if people are interested. I can also use my meetup site to manage deposits, RSVPs, directions, etc...

I hope that helps some.

Thanks again,

Barb

P.S. We can do more than one event.

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

~~Monika is Leaving
the building~~

on 10/5/08 6:56 am - Wake Forest, NC
I think two events would be great...... and neither would interfere with the other due to timings. One in the spring and one in the fall.  I could possibly attend both that way.  *smile*

I guess I mentioned the number of beds and people so that if people brought their kids they could still share with someone they know.   Or if two people wanted to share the 1br it would cost them about $100 for hotel for the whole weekend a great deal since the hotel is a top notch and not a run down place (stayed at one of those @MB and it was miserable)

I have had good luck sharing a room in the past with an onliner and her daughter, but I do know that is tough but in small groups it may be easier than in a bigger group setting (thinking of MTV Real World LOL)

It would be great to incorporate scrapbooking -- bring some supplies to share with the others (each person brings extras to share with the others)

and with so many miniature golf places down there that too would be soooo much fun too. 

I agree with you that there should be a non-refundable deposit or I think that it could be individuals deciding roomies and reserving (with a group rate and code to get grouped together and not all over the hotel).   The hotel requires one night deposit in full which they have their own rules on the refunding of said deposit.    If not so many actually show up ... hey I still end up at the beach and having fun with those that do.  *smile*

For those that bring kids, I have two adult girls (both take care of my girls who might be interested to come down and babysit (for a small fee -- they are both college students) that would allow for parents to enjoy themselves and the kids too!!

Thank you for the offer to help (and use meetup) to keep this all lined up well. 

I am going to organize one post and post to the SC board and the main board as well to see if there is additional interest from other OH members, maybe we could make mention of this at the next Raleigh meeting as well -- get more input *smile*

There are soooo many things that could be done to make it a great weekend. 

And if your going to the Beach there is no reason to be anywhere but ocean front or you might as well stay at home !!! LOL



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new-beginning
on 10/5/08 9:00 am

Couldn't you set it up with the name of the resort, hotel or etc. and we call and make our own reservations and payment.   If a few ppl want to share, they can do this on their own.  This way no one ends up holding the bag for others.  

I know when i have gone to conferences or weddings, they book a block of room and then we call by a certain date and make our own reservations.    Would something like this work?

Pam

Barbara C.
on 10/5/08 10:44 am - Raleigh, NC

Hi Pam,

That idea certainly has merit. I depends on the type of facility. If we rent a condo, of course, that doesn't work as well and that's what we did last time. We'll need to look at the options.

Thanks for a good suggestion.

Barb

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

ibeanniebe
on 10/5/08 6:48 am - NM
I totally had that kind of idea in mind. Any time would be great as long as htere is advance notice and I don't for one mind paying an advance deposit or even my share in advance. Some of us could car pool and share the gas expense too. All the suggestions I read so far would be a lot of fun. I would very much love to dust off my bowling shoes and ball and give that a go. Off season is almost always less expensive as far as renting places. I am so glad someone wants to actually do this!
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new-beginning
on 10/5/08 8:59 am

Couldn't you set it up with the name of the resort, hotel or etc. and we call and make our own reservations and payment.   If a few ppl want to share, they can do this on their own.  This way no one ends up holding the bag for others.  

I know when i have gone to conferences or weddings, they book a block of room and then we call by a certain date and make our own reservations.    Would something like this work?

Pam

~~Monika is Leaving
the building~~

on 10/5/08 9:15 am - Wake Forest, NC
I agree that this is the best idea.

The one resort I was mentioning requires a full night (including tax) as a deposit and has their own refund policies. 

If people come they come... if they don't they don't I will still enjoy the beach, sand, shopping and relaxation with those that do.

This week I will call a few of the better resorts and see what kind of specials we can get with the various # of rooms.... 10 rooms, 20 rooms etc.

.



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