Bad news

I don't even know what to say.  I started spotting and cramping yesterday, and it got worse as the day went on.  I spent the evening in the ER and when all was said and done, my suspicions were confirmed...I lost the baby.  :( 

We're so disappointed.  But, all said and done, I'll be OK.  I know this isn't my fault.  Things happen for a reason, and this baby just wasn't healthy enough.  We are both trying to focus on the still fabulous news that I was even able to get pregnant...because that wasn't the case before!  So, let my body heal and then we'll try again.

I"m so so sorry to hear that.  I know how you feel.  I miscarried between my first and second children, and even though  you never held that baby in your arms, you still mourn the loss.  Just pray and ask God to bless you with a strong, healthy baby.  Great things are going to come your way.  Be blessed!
Andrea

I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  Your positive outlook will help in the days to come, but please don't deny your feelings of grief.
Will be thinking of you and your husband and sending prayers above....
Shelia

((((((Deb and Ryan))))),

My heart goes out to you. I'm so very sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I know how very much you both wanted this baby. Please be gentle with and take care of yourselves and each other as you grieve the loss of this baby.

Barb

Deb:

I am SO Sorry to hear this. You truly do have a positive outlook on things. You keep the faith because now you know it is possible to get pregnant. That is half the battle right there and like you said you have been fighting that battle for a very long time. I am just so sorry but you guys will succeed and hopefully it will be soon. Give yourself some time to heal and recover. I am thinking of you guys!

Lisa

I'm so sorry Deb.  You and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care.
Ellen

I am so sorry to hear this...Your in my prayers.

Oh Deb I'm so sorry to hear the news.  I was never able to carry a baby more than 3 months (2 miscarriages), so I feel your disappointment.  You have a good attitude.  Give yourself time to recooperate, dont ru**** and try try try again.  My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Im really sorry... I no how it is im only 18 and already been thru that even thro i wasnt ready it killed apart of me when i lost mine

Dear Deb and Ryan,
Please accept my condolences.  I am grieving right there along with you.  I am so grateful, however, that you can see the blessing behind the curse.  That will take you a long way.  Nonetheless, my heart aches with yours.