Wig pics are up

Goodmorning my OH family it is 5:30 and guess who is up and ready to walk the babies? I have posted some wig pictures and Zenny bird is right there with me he likes to preen my feathers LOL                                              Annie

Hi Grammylew, I thought the same thing about where do you think a wig would go. Yes it does make me feel better. On the treadmill I had a thought this morning I have lots of thoughts on my treadmill and that was I am going forward and the ones who are jelous or what ever can eat my dust as I go down the road.                                        Annie

I happen to think you look very nice. xoxo

Annie, I love love love YOUR hair.   Notice how I said YOUR hair-- b/c it IS!  I think it looks VERY natural and the style suits you completely.  It is very apparent that Ruth is jealous. You will run into those types of people... I have. People that were very good friends of mine now rarely talk to me and I know it's b/c of my weight loss. She even made the comment one time that she "made sure she was friends with me b/c of my weight"... that hurt my feelings and we have been distant ever since.  Since WLS and losing over 100 pounds, we rarely even talk (we used to talk every day)... so that is COMPLETELY what it is-- she is jealous and so is Ruth. You are a great friend to still support her in helping her make a decision regarding her own weight loss, but don't let her say things to you that are hurtful. If it continues, I would distance myself from her... Love ya sweetie and you look fabulous!

Thanks Mindy, I will never understand why and how people can be so cruel to each other. I thought I had a good friend too who I also talked to or hung out with alot bf my surgery. She never agreed with the surgery and when I told her I was going to have it I spoke up and told her I needed her suporrt and if she could not do that then I could no longer hang out this was 4 years ago and I have only seen her a few times in passing. I am not perfect but I try to keep my word to people and treat others as I would like to be treated. As far as Ruth goes she has to make her own choice but I feel her time is running out. Thank you Mindy for your nice responces to me you are a good girl and understand how I feel.                                          Annie

Annie............I have no idea what that girl is talking about, from the pics, that wig looks real and from the way she speaks, you are wearing it lopsided or backwards, what the he** is she talking about???????  You know, all my life when I was heavy and during some other out of control times in my life when I wasn't living the way I should, I  took pride in my hair and that was the ONE thing that HAD to look perfect everyday.  Looking back now that my life has gotten back on track, I am able to see that was my safe harbor.  I had no control in other areas of my life, but doggone it, at least I had control of my hair!  Maybe that's what she's going through,,,,,,,she knows that she doesn't have the control you now do, and she's pointing out the one area she does have it, not realizing it's at your expense.  A few of my friends have mentioned that they have sort of lost their old friends to some degree, and the way I see it, if she isn't happy for you and can see that Annie is still Annie, no matter what her outer shell looks like, well then, she's not really a good friend at all, and I bet (taking a stab here), that your friendship loss is harder for you than for her.  Some things you just gotta' set free.....Dont let her issues drag you down...you've come wayyyyyyyyy too far.   (plus, zenny bird would be heartbroken if you let her words win over his pastime!) Yes, I'm saving the sweater, lol, and I'm still taking pictures for e-bay, I think once school's out I'll be able to chat and find out the nitty gritty! lol  Have a blessed day! Nancy

Thanks Nancy well said. I mainly stay to myself because of jelous people who ventured into my life. I am very happy at home with my animals and doing my demos during the week. I love people and love to help others but I have found there are some that are happy to have help but do nothing to help themselves. I am on a personal mission at this point so what she said yeah it was a slap in my face and I can deal with it. My real hair is in pretty bad shape right now and I too have always prided myself on my natural curly hair. As Matt said it is only hair and it will grow back. So Off to the eye doctor I go today wearing my new hair and I can hold my head up high knowing I am helping myself become healthier.                                     Annie

Hey Annie... looks great.  I would not worry about "haters" (as my students would say.. )

Annie, I think your hair is georgous!  The color and the style suit you to a tee!   Had you not told us, I don't think I would have known it is a wig.