My Neice was Killed
I'm so very sorry to hear of your painful loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your dear family. I lost my 21 year old brother in a similar accident nearly 20 years ago and while reading your post remembered the piercing pain of the loss.
I wish you the peace that love, time and warm memories will eventually bring to you and your grieving family.
With my deepest, heartfelt sympathies,
Barb
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
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Oh honey, I am so sorry for your lost. My beautiful 18 yo neice Stephanie Mesibov was killed in a car wreck in Tampa, FL on Aug. 31, 2006. I have never experienced pain like this in my life. My sister, her mom, did not even identify her body because her face was so messed up, so her casket had to be closed for the funeral. The ME identified her by her drivers licence. It was a freak accident. She was not speeding, not drinking, not on her cell phone. No "reason" for the accident to have happened. I cried every day for the first 3 months. The first day that I did not cry, I felt so guilty that I fell into a deep depression for several months. I found a wonderful therapist who has helped me greatly. They say "time heals all wounds". It doesn't. The only thing it does do is replace some of the pain with some of the wonderful memories you have of her. I can now tell funny stories about her to my friends, but my eyes always water up. I always send her flowers to her grave for Christmas, Birthday, Date of her Death, etc. May God hold you in His loving arms while you grieve, and may you take great comfort in knowing that she is knealing before Her Maker. Much love and blessings to you my friend. Teresa
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR AND YOUR FAMILY. I LIVE IN THE AREA AT STEPHENSON STABLES AND ACTUALLY HEARD THE ACCIDENT TAKE PLACE BEFORE I EVEN REALIZED IT HAD HAPPENED. IT WAS A SOUND THAT MADE MY HEART DROP....THEN AS I SAT IN MY DRIVEWAY WATCHING ALL THE FIRST RESPONDERS SHOW UP, MY HEART DROPPED EVEN MORE BECAUSE SOMETHING TOLD ME IT WAS NOT A GOOD THING. I THINK I WILL NEVER FORGET THE THINGS I HEARD THAT NIGHT WHILE I WAS JUST LAZILY DOING SOME PAINTING IN MY GARAGE. I HAD NO IDEA THIS WOULD BE HAPPENING AT THAT VERY MOMENT AND TIME UNTIL OBVIOUSLY IT WAS TOO LATE. ALL O F MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY.......GOD BLESS.