Duke WLS patients---where's the forum?

I actually live in Raleigh and my problem with them is that the whole office is so chaotic. I attended the seminar back in September 2007 my first appointment was Jan. 10, 2008 and that is when they told me my insurance required a 6 month non-surgical weighloss attempt diet. They should have checked my insurance way before my appointment. Luckily I had been to my Doctors office enough times to get that paperwork completed. The people at Duke have lied to me, they never return calls you literally have to stay on top of things. They have lost some of my paper work. They tell me they received my paperwork then said no they never did. They used to have a message board on the Duke website but so many of us started to complain and I think that is why they took it off. (my opinion only) It is just very frustrating. Have you gone to the seminar yet?