Hey Everyone!
Hi Amanda -
I just wanted to take a mement to welcome you to the group. Please be sure to ask plenty of questions and share your concerns and observations ... It helps us all. I look forward to getting to know you as you journey to a healthier, new you.
Barb
P.S. You are an absolutely beautiful bride!
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145
Welcome to the NC board! I hope that you will find as much friendship, support and information here as I have. Please know that there is no such thing as a "stupid question." If you are thinking about it, either we have already been there or someone else is too. We all learn so much from each other's questions, observations and answers.
I can really relate to your not liking any of your photos. I kept sorting through mine trying to find some I liked ... as well as some where I wasn't hiding behind something or someone. I know it's hard, but try to get some full body, front, side and back shots ... One of my friends, just commented on mine and said that in hind sight (no pun intended) that she really wished she had a rear shot. It really helps to see just how far you have come. I know that I was really having a hard time getting my head to catch up the reality of my new size ... the photos, old and new have really helped me.
I also know what you mean about not really being able to imagine yourself not fat ... I'm still working on that one. I remember prowling through the before and afters until I'd see someone about my size and shape ... I'd go look at their profile and just wonder if I'd ever get that small. I sent a note to someone who looked a lot like me in their before photo and commented that I could only dream of becoming like their after photo. Believe it or not, she checked in on me recently with a sweet note saying I had "arrived" ... meaning that I didn't think I'd ever get there, but I did. ... And guess what, I really do resemble her after photo. In less than a year, you will be a very new you.
Again, welcome!
Barb
Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145