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Mare,
Yep mom comes from The Old School way of thinking it drives me crazy sometimes LOL.
I keep trying to tell her things are not how they were when we were growing up. I always compare life to when I was little and my siblings and I would have lemonade stands and split the money and go to the dairy bar. Those days are long gone. Annie
You can most certainly get a second opinion. My daughter broke her foot a few years back and the first ortho doc I took her to was awful. I was told that I would have to pay 100% for a second opinion by the doc's office.. which I gladly did to get the child's foot correct. Then.. BCBS swooped on in and paid it in full. :) The doc had to send me a nice refund. Good luck and I hope things go well. :)