OT: Overwhelmed

 Ellen,

I wish you the best of luck. You are a stong wonderful person and this is not your fault.  My thoughts and prayers are with you hun.

 

 

Thanks Darcie.  I am willing to accept partial blame for the state of things, it took both of us to get here, just not all the blame.  Thanks for the kind words. Ellen

((((Diane))))  Thanks for the support and prayers.  I am currently looking for a job, I've always worked VERY part time, and now am forced to go full time.  This is the last year towards my computer degree, so this isn't a great time for this, but whatever happens I'll make it through.  Corrie Ten Boom says, "You get your ticket when you get on the train." Thanks for the tip, I'll check out the website. Ellen

Hmmm... I hit reply to your post, but it posted it below Darcie's post.  Go figure....

I have been divorced for 8 years now. I look back now and see it was the best thing that could have happen to me. I didn't think so then. But every thing happens for a reason. Hold your head up and you will get through this and some thing good could be waiting around the corner

Thanks for the kind words and assurance that this too shall pass.  I appreciate it. Ellen

Ellen, I am very sad to hear that you are going through this.  I have never been divorced bu****ched my parents separate when I was 23.  This is a tough journey.  I will agree with you and pray for God's will to be done in this situation.  That He will intervene and make the path clear to you.  I can certainly understand how this is hard for you and maybe you are even scared.  When I lost my brother 3 years ago I remember the agonizing pain of loss.  I remember crying out to God.  I felt Him wrap his arms around me and cradle me in the night.  This comforted me and brought me some peace.  That too is what I will pray for you, for your peace in whatever the will of God is.  I will also pray for your children as well.  Your postings have been such a blessing to me.  Please let me know if there is anything I can do or if you need a nonjudgmental ear to listen.  Take care and I am thinking and praying for you! Candice

Thanks for the prayers and kind words Candice.  Yes, I'm scared, I have no idea what life looks like without him.  We married when I was very young, so I've been married longer than I was single.  But I know God will bring me through, He always has. Ellen

I am sorry to hear you are having to go through this Ellen.  I will certainly remember you in my thoughts and prayers.

Thanks Jennifer.  I appreciate it. Ellen