okay I need HELP!
To Ethel and anyone reading -
Never be scared to ask questions concerning your health. Sometimes we dismiss symptoms and say "it's not that bad" or "it'll be fine". You have to be proactive with your health, something that you might not think is serious...may very well be. It's better to be safe than sorry....so to say. Usually your instinct/suspicion is correct and if it turns out nothing is wrong....well, then at least you'll have "piece of mind".