stress need to vent
My normal supportive husband has been acting like a complete a** which is driving me nuts I don't understand I need him so much right now I have to work this weekend this is my lost weekend before surg. on Wed. and I would love to have him just hold me and be supportive with everything that is coming up and I am trying to not let him get me down I am trying to get my house and everything str8 and kids taken care of and it is getting very stressful I have surg. wed and family is still calling asking for favors I want to yell people please I a few days to get things str8 for my own family I don't have time to take care of you right now but I just handle it the best way I can and what get done get done and I will let someone else handle it I had to vent and this is the best way for right now b/c my husband is shutting down on me
Vickie
Vickie- You can't be all things for everyone. Right now it's time to concentrate on yourself and getting ready for surgery. Do the things you need and want to do, as for other's asking for you to do things "just say NO" I hope your husband realizes that you need each other right now. I agree that he may be getting scared himself of your surgery and if you will change following surgery. I wish you the best and we're her for support whenever you need it!
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