Need help with some questions!
You cannot determine what or where you will loose. I carry most of my weight in my stomach and I've lost most of the extra fat just about everywhere including my stomach, However, I still have big boob's so it's not a given that you will lose them.
Another question people ask, is you have alot of skin hanging. I do not. If i worked out I could easily tone up, but yes, anyone who loses weight risks having lose skin.
check out www.threefatchicks.com and read their stories.
Good Luck,
Jen
PS Your husband won't miss the boobs in exchange for having a very healthy wife.