I lost my mom this week

marymother
on 9/14/10 5:36 pm - saint john, Canada
My Mom died this week. I honestly can't think of anything that has been more painful. Right now being fat or not being fat is of no conciquence. I know in time this will ease and I will again be concerned about my weight but not right now.  It is amazing how quickly and completely your priorities change when something really bad happens in your life.
Higest weight       305 
weight surgery day  Feb 12 2009    251
Current weight     174    
First goal         199   Onederland ( Reached goal Aug 8 @ 198lbs)
Second goal   193    Century Club  ( Reached on Aug 30 2009 )
Third  goal      180 pounds  ( Reached on Nov.23 2009 ) (my personal goal)
Final goal      170 pounds  ( reached Jan 5 2011) ( only stayed that weight breifly)

I'm still maggie from the grove


maggielsmallcard.gif picture by lynnca1972     I LOVE MY RNY !!!

2 years down, a lifetime to go!!!!

LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE,  NOBODY GETS OUT ALIVE 
Carly ~
on 9/15/10 12:18 am
I'm so sorry for your loss.  I lost my Mom in May last year, and I miss her so much.
I know like my Mom, now you have an angel to watch over you xoxo
Take time for you right now, everything else will fall into place when the time is right.
whitneyb1999
on 9/15/10 1:11 am - Willow Grove, Canada
My dear Maggie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of need.  I know it is never easy loosing a loved one and especially your parent, please know that we are all here for you if there is anything you need or just to have someone to talk to I am here for you.  Weight loss or anything else at this time is understandble to put on the back burner as you are going through an emotional time.  Please remember we are here for you any time. 

God Bless

Beth
Striving for a healthier me.       
thinksmart1st
on 9/15/10 1:47 pm - Fergus, Canada
Hi Maggie! I am so sorry for your lost! Loosing a parent is never easy thats for sure. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs my friend! Take care of you right now. If you need to talk you can message me or any member and I know they will be these as well for you. These are amazing people!
Take care cause we care
Hugs
Denise

            

God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day,
comfort for the  tears, and light for the way.


I prefer to live
my life, not  just merely exist.

"I am who I am, and I don't need to justify anything to anyone."

    
Mary C.
on 9/15/10 2:35 am - Glovertown, Canada
So sorry to hear that Maggie - I can't relate as luckily I still have both my parents. You are right - our priorities change quickly don't they. Take care of yourself and hugs to you

        
Kitty_mom
on 9/15/10 6:11 am - New Maryland, Canada
OMG i am so sorry to hear that. It is so hard to lose your mother. There isn't a lost just like losing your Mom. My thoughts & prayers are with you as you come to terms with this lose.Be gentle with your self. Time does heal but not completely. The time will come when what you will remember most are the good times & not the lose. For now, allow yourself to grieve  as much & in whatever way helps you.

 

starsky466
on 9/15/10 9:36 am - Oromocto, Canada
Oh Maggie, I am so sorry to hear this. I too, lost my mom a month and a half ago. It's been a real tough road but I'm making it through, slowly. You will too. If you need to talk, please don't hesitate to message me. I'm here for you if you need an ear.
Starr

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jet03
on 9/15/10 12:36 pm - Canada
Maggie, sorry for your loss. I lost my Mom almost 10 years ago already and life was forever changed as some have mentioned.  Priorities change all the time; they have this week and they will again later on. Be strong Maggie, you will  get through this.


Jet
zardor4
on 9/15/10 9:48 pm
Maggie, I can't even begin to imagine your loss, thoughts and prayers will be sent your way. You and your family will get through this time of emotion, but if you need to vent we are here for you.
Angela K.
on 9/17/10 7:47 am
So sorry that you lost your Mom this week...my thoughts and prayers are with you. 

Angela
   
       
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