Dr. S info
I know what you are talking about Patsy with the surgery being anti-climactic. You wait and wait and wait some more. You make calls and bug people and read everything you can get your hands on. The big day arrives....no fireworks, no brass band.....and where the hell is the parade. After all the energy and anticipation, it's almost (but not) a let down. It is really a weird experience in that respect. Anything else in life that takes that much time and energy (other than husbands) usually culminates in a big TA-DA. a celebration or ritual of some kind!!!