Starr, where are you?

 Hey Starr, haven't heard anything from you in the last little while.  How is everything going?

Sorry everyone. I am just going through some stuff right now and not doing so good with the whole surgery thing so I have been keeping to myself to wallow in my own self pity I guess. Thanks for the concern but I've all but given up on the losing weight thing. I just can't seem to eat less.

What has happened? Maybe we can help. We/ I am here for you. We don't mind listening.

 Oh Starr, sorry to hear that things are rough right now.  Please don't give up - call Moncton to see what they recommend.  There are people there who can help us with whatever we need and it is all part of this process.  You can always count on all of us here on the forum.  There are many successful losers here who have all kinds of tips and they are willing to share.  You had this surgery so that you could have a healthy life and a better life.  It's time to do something for you!  So, we are here for you when you need a hug or a kick in the pants to get you going and back on track.  Don't give up - we care!

(((HUGS))) - Suzanne

OMG, Star, don't give up. The only time you fail is when you give up. Losing weight is bloody tough but it is doable. Didn't you have lap band surgery? Don't give up. The weight will come off. It has to. You've waited so long for this. Just a little more patience. Don't get discouraged it will happen.