Mixed feelings
Someone tell me to grow up and stop behaving like a b****!
Ann
The 80% figure came from Dr B via a message I posted. That is still a big improvement. i need to get an attitude adjustment and stop being negative.
DON"T GET DISCOURAGED MY DEAR- SMILE! It's finally happenning for you and it's going to be great!
I completely understand that it ****** you off. To be honest, I wasn't on Dr. B's list very long so I can understand that seeing me go get surgery so qulckly would upsets you.
I was about to wait the five years just like everyone else, but I seeked alternative venues because of the wait. I was about to go out of province and self pay when I heard about Dr. S.
I believe everything happens for a reason. As for your health- I'm sorry about that. I know that the four year wait has made your health deteriorate.
Usually in order for something to get better- it needs to get at its worst. Unfortunately you were caught in the "worst" part but because of people like you, you have helped the system get better.
I bet it dosn't take the mixed feelings away, but the liver regenerates and you never know. I'm 26 and I have a liver condition too, since I"ve been 24.
Who knows? maybe once you have this surgery, it will be less strain on your liver once you eat better and you'll get better.
I just stopped drinking and taking birthcontrol and my liver is alot better. It's a very strong organ.
Today I found out my cousin was going to see Dr. S. I got all pissed off about it until my hubby said: Monica, this surgery isin't all about you and he's right.
2008 was meant to be YOUR year Charline!!!!!
on 10/25/08 12:10 pm
I can see how you would get frustrated with how things are getting easier and faster for those that wish to change their life -- After 2yrs just waiting for a consult I was getting thoroughly frustrated and almost gave up on it entirely , thinking all was lost and I'd always be stuck with this body, for better or worse..
Now that there is another doctor in NB and Medicare covers more and more surgeries, things will get better for everyone all around.
Sorry that you had to wait so long dear :( ..
"Better a late invitation than no invitation at all" .. I like to say sometimes!
Thanks for letting be B***H. I would't and don't begrudge anyone getting what I didn't. No point in another person having their health fail while waiting.
on 10/25/08 1:36 pm
Thanks for letting be B***H. I would't and don't begrudge anyone getting what I didn't. No point in another person having their health fail while waiting.
Vent.. ***** whatever it takes :)
I realise it wasn't directed to others, I probably could have worded my previous reply better I think -- it's late and I don't put thoughts together all that well late in the evening *lol*
Medicare has and always will be a messed up system. At least now they are covering more types of WLS and people don't have to seek elsewhere for treatment outside of NB and pay it out of pocket...
and if you read the US and UK sites...the same things happen all the time. some people get in fast...some have to run through hoops and their health suffers...and they wait and wait...it is just totally not fair.
I am just so glad for you that it is finally happening for you......thank god...and you will get your surgery soon...and 2009 is going to be your year!
Take care, and honey...you vent your little heart out. That is what we are here for...and there is not one of us that would not be frustrated by waiting so long.
Great lunch yesterday, I had fun and next time we will try not to have the "little ears" of my 4 year old with us, so if you want to vent, scream, wail, etc there won't be any worry of trauma to him causing years of counselling down the road!!! LOLOLOLOL
Anyway, focus on the future ... your time is coming and there could have been a very good reason you needed to wait and may never know why God had this timeline/plan for you.
Shall I bring a Medicare voodoo doll to the next support meeting so you can release all the negative energy???? LOLOLOLOL
Take care my dear, and feel free to call anytime you need to vent!
Michelle Clark
Canadian Mom, Tupperware Manager and AVON Leader
Angel to Charline (New Maryland) & Chrissy