HB Tami!

The Birthday Patrol is here to honor our very own: Julie H of River Falls, WI Tami Mackie of Coram, MT Tj Brown of Texarkana, AR HAPPY BIRTHDAY ... YOU GO, DEAR FRIENDS, IT'S YOUR BIRTHDAY!!! God bless you and may all your wishes come true!! & {{{HUGS}}} & Melissa Mermaid & All Your AMOS Pals P.S. Click on "Birthday Patrol" (profile link) to find out how to sign up for the Birthday Patrol. P.P.S. If you have ALREADY REGISTERED for "Birthday Patrol," please doublecheck the list to make sure you're on it; the computer has not always been kind!

Sounds good - the 517 club. Kadie

Does it make any sense? Does it ever. I had my two teens when I was a teen myself, talk about growing up in a hurry. I was going to the park, doctors office, and pre-school with women that were much older than me. They were very nice and admired me for being such a great mommy at such a young age. I learned a lot from them; cooking, activities, and about my relationship with my, then, husband. However, I felt a void, all my friends were getting together on weekends, parties, prom, and college..;-( As my children grew up and my marriage ended, soooooooo sad, I started to live. And live I did. I partied and did the whole club scene... I was having a great time! I enjoyed dancing, meeting people, drinking, dressing up, and well, just having a great time....... When I turned 30, I realized that I was burnt out and that I no longer enjoyed men pawing me allover when we danced. I started to dislike the scent or taste of alcohol. I still loved dressing up, looking cute and meeting people... These are the problems I encountered; Some women my age were either STILL out clubbing and trying to meet the guy of their dreams. Well I didn't want to hang out with them. The other's were married and (my feelings) didn't want me hanging around their husbands (to insecure). I didn't want to hang out with them.... The guys my age, wanted much younger girls (pretty but no brains). Older men loved me (yuck, try having sex with them in 40 years, not to mention the ear hair). Younger men, want older women....here is my take on that...They like a woman who is secure and confidant, someone that they can have an intellectual conversation with, someone who can carry herself well and he can introduce to his pals,,,,,oh course they also know that an older woman is more comfortable with herself and SEX, yes SEX is much more enjoyable with an older woman...... I'm 36, and I'm content with myself. I have a younger man (4 yrs) in my life he adores me. We have a young son and wev'e been together for 7 years...... I don't have many friends, but the one's I do have, are good quality friends.....As I age, my tastes have changed. I now enjoy just going to the movies, having a nice dinner, a social gathering every so often, and above all, I DON'T compromise, why should I??? I am an older, sophisticated, intelligent, and almost gorgeous (again) woman. Hope this helps You are who you feel you are, you have gone this far, don't give up...If you feel beautiful, inside and out, then people ONLY see you beautiful.. Warm regards and a big hug Carolbear