ANYONE AFRAID OF GAINING WAIT AGAIN, AND BECOMING OBESE

I always have negative people around me.. Saying different things..... You'll gain the wait back and become obese again is anyone else scare of this.. Lisa

oh yhea!I have gained a few lbs , in the past week! Im getting back on track right now, where it dont snowball out of control! Looks like this thing isnt going to get any easier, its a constant battle, some days i feel like throwing in the towel, but I really dont want to be miserable again!

I think we will fight the battle for the rest of our lives. I hate those pod people that can eat anything and everything and never worry about what the scales are saying. We will have to be diligent forever. But, it will be worth it because we will be healthy and not miserable. I am like you, I never want to go back to that misery of being obese again. Melissa

Lisa, I chose to only tell a few friends and family. I did not want to deal with the negativity. I pray I am strong enough to see this through to my goal. Which by the way is not skinny, just healthy. Don't let these people get you down. Cindi M

I too am afraid of regaining weight, and try to always do the protein first. It is something we will have to be aware of every time we sit down before food. Just stick to the rules and if you splurge, just make yourself aware that this is a treat and the next meal will be protein protein and water water water after!!!

Yes, I havent' even gotten to goal yet and im terrified of being that obese girl again. It's a constant struggle for me, and I weigh everyday and stay on top of things so I refuse to let it creep back on me. There is a lot of jelousy out there especially when you are not the 'fat girl' anymore. I have no idea why some people are like that, but for some I guess is because some women look at you as competition instead of being your friend or anything like that. You would think people would be happy for us because we are no longer miserable, but you can't change how people feel, but you can enjoy your new life and your accomplishments . Just ignore the negative people, be happy for what you have done for yourself. Crystal

Lisa; If you only knew. I am deathly afraid of gaining all the weight back on. Everytime I try a new food that I loved and can eat it. I am scared. But being scared keeps me honest. I know that I will have to watch what I eat and drink for the rest of my life. I am getting really down about being stuck at 240 but I look at it this way better 240 than 340 and that is were I was heading quick. Keep up the faith that you are not alone in this journey. We are all in different stages of it. Remember what works for me many not work for you. Steph

I haven't even had surgery yet, and I'm already afraid of gaining the weight back. I want to stay aware and focused on the rules. And it's weird, but I pray that I dump! I haven't told as many people as my hubby thinks I should. He feels I should be excited and spread the word, but I'm anxious about it. I will tell more people when I get a date. Just hang in there and be strong!!! This is the perfect place to stay accountable and get good advice and commrodery. Brandi ;~)