thanks everyone

thank you all for your prayers and emails, it means to world to me. Just please keep praying for me and my husband , i cant bear the thought of loseing him. Everything thats is going on has happen since i had my surgery, so its true that WLS is hard on a marriage , i just never though it would be mine. Everything is my falut so please dont blame my husband hes a wonderful man and didnt deserve this to happen to him. He is heartbroken and i dont know if it will get better for him , please pray that the Lord will open his heart to forgiving me and heal his pain. i love each and everyone of you, DAWN

Hey Dawn, Know that you arent the only one who has had issues come up in their marriage. I am here for you if you want to talk. Christine

Dawn, It can be very rough on a relationship. You guys just need to communicate and keep the channels open now. I can't offer a whole lot of advice, other than be honest with each other, tell him how you feel, find a way to work this out and give him some time to deal with everything. If you need to talk, please call me, you know I'm always here for you!!! Reassurance and communication, key words. You're in my prayers. Both of you. ~Andie~

Hijack... Hey Andie.. I love your new picture. I looked at your profile and i had never seen that before pic of you. You have come a long way and you look mahvelous!!

Hijack! Hey, Andie, what a great picture. You are looking great girl. Woo hoo! Melissa

Dawn, I wish I knew what to say or do to make it better. I'm sorry that your going through all of this. Your in my prayers & know that God is there even when you think that your alone. I'm only a call away if you need me. Happiness keeps You Sweet, Trials keep You Strong, Sorrows keep You Human, Failures keeps You Humble, Success keeps You Glowing, But Only God keeps You Going! Tammy

Dawn, I hope everything gets better. I will be sure to keep you in my prayers for you and him. I don't know what happened but their can always be forgiveness. What ever happened certainly is not worth the life ya'll have built together. Becky

Dawn, You know that I love ya and I am here for you! If there is anything I can do, please let me know. I am only a phone call away and a short driving distance. If you and Donnie need a night out, Sara and I will tag team the kids so that you can have some time alone together. My son is a great helper also. Just let me know.. Keep your chin up, I know it feels like the end of the world, but just remember that things could have been a lot worse... and you know what I mean!! Donnie will be okay, it will just take a little bit of time. Your marriage is stronger than you think it is after being together as long as you two have been together. Everything will work itself out.. just remember to always be honest with him and with yourself in the future! Love ya! Rhonda

Great Idea, Rhonda!! I wanted to say, if you& Amy tag team the little ones, I'll gladly take that adorable 6 yr old home with me, my 5 yr loves him, and he'd be plenty busy over here running around playing and stuff !! Definitely worth a thought, Dawn... If you guys need some time alone, you know between all of us, we can get you guys some quality time !!

ok sorry Amy.. I meant SARA.. omg my brain HAS been fried in this heat... I am definitely getting my AC fixed this week!!!! grrrrrrrrrr