OT: Tell Me Why?

Can someone tell me why people always have to compare and contrast everything. You know some people like to give informational tips, ideals, suggestions and just info. to help others. But some feel that the only good info. is the info they give. I have two wonderful people that seems to play tag team on my posts. I just hope they are getting something out of it educational. Everyone have a great day.

Why do you always make everything that happens on this board about you ? Someone is always out to get you. Someone is always against you. BLAH BLAH BLAH !!! I for one am sick of hearing your "poor me" whine story that you have going. Its bad enough that you go around calling me a "Sheet Wearing KKK Member". I have the email to prove it to anyone that wants to see it. Not one person on this board is tag teaming you. If anything they are avoiding you. Nobody wants to be bashed by the like of you for telling their thoughts. However, I guess if you wipe some of that "everyone is out to get me" out of your eyes you would see that. Sorry if the truth hurts. Tammy

Okay, whadda I miss???? I went back and read all your posts and replies and I don't know what I missed. Has something been pulled? The part that worries me in your post is that I do like to give "informational tips, ideas, suggestions, and just info." BUT I don't feel like mine is the only or the best.....Are you talking about your post about the medical id bracelets? I responded to that thanking you.....and then Tammy replied that she hadn't found the bracelets anywhere less expensive than obestity help. And by my previous post concerning that, I don't see how you could feel that I was being ugly. A lady had posted to my post on the main board and I copied her reply and posted it on my post since she had found less expensive sites. If you took offense at my thanking you for the information, I am very sorry, but I assure you I did not mean anything other than I appreciate the info. But surely you are not upset that I responded with a thank you, are you?? Please set me straight on all this, cause if I am causing you troubles or to be upset, I sincerely apologize. And Please tell me straight out if you have a problem with me or if I have somehow offended you. But if it isn't this, then what is it? I don't understand..... Smooch, Arlies

Hey Redd, I am not sure about any comparing or contrasting or tag teaming,if I have done anything to upset you I apoligize but, I personally want to hear what everyone has to say I might get something from one post that another person might not have said so if someone has anything to add to what someone else says ,well then I think that is a good thing no one person has all the answers here if they do, well then they don't need to be here lol but, then again nobody asked me directly and I am sure I will be told so (minding my own business now lol )..... It's All Goooood....Sherry.....

We are all here to help each other in any way possible. Everyone has their own experiences that they share with everyone. I have not seen where any one is trying to compete with anyone else, I think that everyone is very supportive of each other. I read almost every post on this site and I have never seen anyone "tag team" anyone else. IF you have a problem with a specific member, you should really take it up with that member because the rest of us do not need to read negative comments. This is a SUPPORT page, I think we are all here for the same reasons, well, most of us are. I only know a couple of people from this site personally but I can asure you they are some of the nicest people I have ever met in my 33 yrs of life. I feel that all of the information I have read about on this site is going to help me tremendously in my post op days. (I can't wait ) Let's all try to keep our negative feelings off of the board, if you have a problem with someone, email them with it, so that the rest of us do not have to read about it. Most of us, need all of the positive comments to help us through this bump in the road. I depend on this site for support because I don't have a lot of it at home. Thanks to everyone that shows such wonderful support to me and everyone else. I love you all!! Rhonda

Amen !!!! I Agree with ya 100%........ ya ...Sherry....

I Agree 100% also now that I know what's going on, don't worry. Enogh said.

Redd Please email me.. your yahoo mail keeps bouncing. [email protected]