saying goodbye

All of the above observations about our changing needs are very true and most of us will find our interaction with the OH website changes just as much as our bodies. But, don't forget to look for what you can offer to others -- never forget how much we benefitted from the postings of those who were ahead of us on the journey!! I find myself checking in on the general boards (main and MO) less often these days, but I try to read them occasionally. I also make sure that every pre-op I meet at our local support group knows about this website. But it seems the board I find most helpful is the one for those of us who all had surgery in the same month. There is one for every month and, by definition, you will find people who are at a similar place in their journey because everyone's surgery was within a few weeks of each other. Oh, I've also become a lurking student on the plastic surgery pages since I'm in the early stages of research... Cindy 274/169/140 (-105)