WHATS HAPPENING MONDAY
Sunday was a great day and a sad day too for several reasons…the happy part was a couple that have both had gastric bypass surgery that I have wrote to for about 2 years. They got in touch with me like a lot of people have on OH but live in Dallas Texas. They are really nice people , about two weeks ago they told me they were going to be in Branson for a few days ….so I told them when they got here to call me and Joe and I would come to Branson and meet up with them.. Well they called yesterday and they said they would be in Branson this morning so we met up at noon at the hotel they were at and we took them to Mels Hard Luck Diner. I knew they would enjoy that place. Have any of you been there? If not you need to go. It is so much fun there….all the waiters and waitresses are young hope to be singers. Really good singers that are looking to get their break, each one has certain tables like any resturant and who ever is your server has some of their cds on the table…and you can request them to sing something that is on the cds. Like I said they are great and it is so festive in there. So if you ever get to go do it is loads of fun.
After we got home this evening I got a phone call from a friend of mine, his wife that is a good friend and had surgery about a month after the time I did passed away today….She weighted 345 pounds and she lost weight like crazy , I knew something was wrong the first time I saw her after her surgery. She looked pale and waxy looking. I got to talking to her and she wasn’t eating like she should have been. She would eat and then throw it all up , she said she couldn’t help it. But I found out she was doing it on purpose. She wasn’t eating her protein , she wasn’t taking her vits. All of it made her sick she said. Everything made her sick , then she wound up in the hospital. Her throat and pouch was full of ulcers. She says now see I told you all that food and stuff were making me sick…but the doctor told her that she had made the ulcers from thowing up all the time. …she had become anorexic and bulimic. She was determined to get under 100 pounds and she did , the last time I saw her I thought she looked like the living dead. Now she is and im going to miss her. Why wouldn’t she listen. I tried to tell her so many times that she didn’t have to not eat at all. That she just needed to change the way she ate. I tried to tell her about the protein, about the vits. Abou****er. She just would not listen she was so obsessed with being tiny…she went from wearing 3xs to 1s and they were loose on her. She was so proud of the fact that she was that little. That everyone said how tiny she was. Oh my gosh why wouldn’t she listen….I don’t know what happens to some people they just get so obsessed with the fact that they can lose and they go all crazy the other way. Anyway im going to miss her. She was a great person .just say a prayer for her family and for all of us that loved her..
JO::::: that was nice of your niece to put splenda in things for you and your sister to make the cream puffs with s. f. pudding. Maybe we do make examples best by our lives you think? I sure hope so. …it isn’t always easy for us to choose right but we can and do it healthy.
I enjoy cooking new things and making them with splenda and w.w. flour or some other low cal baking mix. To me that part of cooking is fun to see if I can make it taste as good as it did before.
This year the turkey tasted as good as it always did .
Colette:::: so good to see you on here. And good to know that you are healthy and happy too. Cant ask much more when you are our ages can you lol…
My knee is doing great except it seems to swell if im up too much. And I know what you mean about damp and cold. It really doesn’t make you feel to well does it ….
Lou::::: im glad that everyone was pleasant about your Christmas photo shoot. Was a really good picture of all of you. …..
Jeanie-Rae::::::lol sounds like you have one of those kids too lol. My youngest daughter was like that . Now I have both of her kids with me lol . Now how did that happen?
Yeah I would say go ahead and keep tooting your own horn….most of the time that works well….
Lets them know that you are ready and don’t want to sit any longer..
That thing you were talking about me getting on might be a problem if it is really low to the ground , that might be hard to get down there…the knee is bending more and better every day.
Well going to get this posted and then get to bed. This day has about wiped me out…..love all of you , please take care of yourself.. And do all that you know you are suppose to do…..remember the thing about losing weight is to get healthy …
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GOD BLESS YOU TODAY
JAN COOK
OH YEAH JO has her surgery today, thoughts and prayers for a uneventful surgery and speedy recovery!
I am getting a little nervous about my upcoming plastics. I wonder if I have made a good choice in the areas I am working on. Everything I read says thighs are painful. My referral came thru for my tummy now the doctor just has to convince the insurance there is a medical need. I believe there is.If it gets approved I hope to do it at the end of January. Time will tell I guess. I am wishing I had planned a full face lift instead of just eyes but I guess you have to start somewhere.
I cannot find a place to put my christmas tree. I moved my office downstairs where I used to put the tree and now I don't have a spot. I didn't put one up last year and I am told I have to do it this year or they will give my trees away. I have more than one. I guess I will have to come up with someplace today.
I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving and are all doing well. Snow may be in our future I hear.
I want to lose another 20 lbs. but I'll do it the healthy way. I'm religious about my vitamins, calcium, iron and protein.
Lou, I will get you the cheesecake recipe. It's a Paula Deen recipe and I use Splenda instead of sugar.
It's back to work today. I really didn't mind coming back. My husband complains a lot about health issues and it gets on my nerves. I'm not hard hearted but I do get tired of the complaining. I watched the Oprah show where she interviewed the woman that was attacked by a 200 lb. chimpanzee. Her face is horrible and she is hoping to get a face transplant. I can't get her out of my head. Makes my problems seem trivial.
It's sunny today but cold.
~Jo~
RNY: July 8, 2008
Dr. John Price
Kansas City, MO
Jan Im really sorry to hear about your friend...prayers go out to you and your friends family....
But now I would like to help explain some of the things that she may have been going through....
All my life I have felt like a worthless person..for lack of words that I cant use on here. I feel and felt like I was the most uglyest person in the world....Only had friends that would walk all over me...and would let them, because they were popular and outgoing, skinny and cute....so by letting them do that it was OK...they were just being my friends....finally I got smart and relized that thats not what friend are suppose to do.....so Food became a even more best friend....it didnt talk back, it didnt judge me, it didnt tell me that I was ugly or the I would be so much pretter if I would just lose weight.....therefore it was my "BFF"......that was when I was young...I didnt date....who wanted a fat ugly girl right....so I worked and hung out with all the wrong crowds....
Got married....suprise, suprise....someone did think I was special....but I didnt think that he thought that way....so food was again my friend....get the picture so far...Jump to 5 years ago....I cant begin to tell you how many times I have wanted to Die...as in Dead.....why live.....I looked discusding....weighed in the 200's by then....with no end in sight....Talked to several people about how I felt....cried daily....but still Food was my BFF.....it still didmt judge me.....Finally went to Dr for something to shut off the BFF voices.....dr told me No...was to high of a risk....WTH...if she only knew....another year gone by....again not sucessful on ending my life...to much holding me here...Kids, Mom....DH well he could get remarried....back to Dr....And she finally listened....Of course I cried the hole time I was there...yep...suicidal....yet still she did get me here...finally!!
So here I am....105lbs down from 222lbs....and yes I LOVE BEENING SKINNY....bag of bones....thin....tiny and anything else that comes to mind. I will never, never never be fat again....I will do what ever I have to do to be skinny.....I know that sounds bad and yes I admit it is...but I would rather die then to gain that weight back. I did do the perge thing and am now trying to get it under control.....Im about half there.....I feel guilty as hell that I have gained lbs back and stuggle with it on a daily, hourly basis. I guess bottom line is that, I have divorce my BFF and dont want nothing to do with it anymore.....Make sense??
I do understant about the Vit's with your friend....I too am non complianced with them too....they upset my stomach amd make me ill most of the day....so I dont take them....and that is not good either...I know....
Ok so sorry that this is long....but wanted to maybe put a little light on what may have been going through her mind for many, many years....
I love you all...and would appreciate that no one judges me badly...but sits back and thinks about how we all have had different experences with our PAST BFF......Mine just won...everyday, everytime for most of my life....but not no more..!!
Hugs to all...
But I want to tell you that you are a beautiful person, and you are special to a lot of people. When your name is mentioned, the love in your husbands eyes sparkles. I saw that the morning of your surgery. You are special to us on here and I bet all those residents think you are special too.
I plan to come see you, sorry but I have been getting all medical done before the end of the year. Last week was colonoscopy and this week lab for me and today for hubby. Take care and we all love you and understand. Keep the communication open and we can all help in some way. Colette