weight gain

Some of you may know, or remember me.  I had my RNY almost 5 years ago.  In the past 3 years, I have gained back 25 pounds!  Maybe that does not sound like alot, but I have to really try hard not to gain more than that.  I am up against a wall, and scared of getting fat....very fat, again.  I am on my way.  I need support, and help.  None of my clothes fit me in my closet, and I just want to wear big shirts and sweats again.  This is what I want.  There were people in the support group I used to go to, and others out there that at the same place as me.  I want to know if they are interested in meeting me for coffee may be one day a month at a restaurant, and talk.  Support each other, and see what works for each other.  Some things may work for you that won't for me....but I have to see what is out there.  I need help.  I joined a gym, working out...but seeing no results.  I am as busy as the next person.  4 kids, a full time job, 3 dogs, husband, on and on.  But I don't have excuses for my weight gain.  I want to lose 20 pounds.  Is there anyone that wants to get with me and conquer this together?  The regular support group just did not help me.  I need more focused topic..weight gain.  Is anyone intersted?  I am not starting a support group by no means, just support for each other.

Hey girl, it was great seeing you at the church function today and I am glad to see you post on here. I hope you find the support you need to get you started on the road again!!! It is an up hill battle that I think we will all face and the exercise (I am convinced) is the answer) But is almost a full time job so I know it will be extra hard for those of you with families and jobs....and by the way, your kids are adorable!

So please, anyone out there that is facing this issue too, get in touch with Monique and get your brains together for some answers. You know, just having someone to be accountable to for your routines is a big help. I have a whole bunch of friends at the gym I go to that keeps me accountable...

So lady, keep in touch and let us know how your doing!

Hope to see ya again!