probably not the right place to put this but

Deb;

I can relate. My sister whom I just lost last April spoke to me that way also. I did come to realize she was like that because she was jealous of my relationship with my husbands family and my child. I had to finally just not speak to her unless it was on my terms and also if she was being nice. I had not spoke to my sister for a couple of years when I got the call she was very ill. I did go to Florida to be with her because eventho I did not like my sister as a person but, I loved the sister I grew up with. We did make amends before she died and I don't know if it would have lasted if she would have survived but, I choose to think we would have really tried. Hang in there, you can not make everybody happy. I KNOW it is hard. Just lean on us and your hubby and as Jan wisely said " Leave it for the Lord".

Thank you Barbara.
 My sister is one who lives for drama. She is always stirring crap.I have told her i love her i can not do anymore than that. I hate the person she is but love her because she is my sister.There is no hope of us every being sisters the way sistrs should be,But i have accepted that. But do not understand her constant need to tell me how worthless i am.
But I have gave it to God .I have no control over her or her actions so i will just let it go let him have a shot at her, Bet when he is done he will need some theraphy .LOL. I even bet her therapist goes and sees one soon as her session with cindy is over .

I am not too sure your sister and my sister shouldn't have been sisters....LOL    That way we could have been left out of the drama....



Hugs

What Jan said,....you got to give it to the Lord.

Have you ever considered Al-Anon?  It is a great place to meet other adult children of alocholics and find healing there. 

Hugs,

Deb C

Deb
Thank you for responding. But i have healed from my.parents alcoholism.They are noy the problem it is the looney sister who is ghe biggest drama queen ever,Who is never happy unless she is making someone elses life as miserable as hers. I changed my phone number to keep from having to deal with her,So only way she has to continue making me feel less than human is through the mail.But nomore from now one i will mark on the letters please return to sender , I'm deceased

My prayers are with you..and just look at the wonderful sisters and brothers you have on here,
God and us will walk the path with you...love you....vesta

Its not your fault she is the way she is and you do not have to be abused. Sister or not do not open anymore cards. We all love you. She needs to work her problems out some other way and not take her anger out on you. Sounds like she jealous of you.

Pooh bear we are all here for you.i have a sholder to lean on.a ear you can talk into.like jan said give it to the lord.we are your sister's.we all are friend's but more like family.you all here on the board are my sister's.you all believe in me more having this surgery than my own family.dont be sorry you had the surgery.you did it for you.to get healthy.to be around for the one's who love you.we are praying for you.andy and i are looking foward to meeting you on tuesday.god bless.susanjust tell your problem's how big your god is they cannot stand a chance