some of posts
Hi Marilyn,
Ditto.....You dont have to just get on and post advice. A lot of times a lot of us post to Jans daily whats happening post and it has nothing at all to do with giving advice, altho if someone asks-if anyone of us knows, we will try and help-its more like a lot of us staying in touch with one another every day and getting to know newbies, if they want to post there. Its like a friends and family post. I hope that one day you will be comfortable enough to get in and post with us! I think you would like it. I hope anyway. Most of us in there like to talk too-LOL...
I feel bad that some would feel like there isnt a place for them. I know that we have begged and begged some to become more active or to our group and some just arent ready to put themselves out there. Maybe pre-op I wouldnt have jumped at it either, you know? I had severe self esteem issues and because of all the redicule I had gone through I didnt put myself out there-and when I did attend my first meeting pre-op-those at the COF group treated me with such respect and love, and unconditional love and acceptance, that I knew I wanted everyone to feel like that! I want everyone to feel as good as I do since the surgery!!
I hope all is well with you-or at least getting easier. You and your family are in my and ours thoughts and prayers and we really do care. We love ya. Love, Janet
Ditto.....You dont have to just get on and post advice. A lot of times a lot of us post to Jans daily whats happening post and it has nothing at all to do with giving advice, altho if someone asks-if anyone of us knows, we will try and help-its more like a lot of us staying in touch with one another every day and getting to know newbies, if they want to post there. Its like a friends and family post. I hope that one day you will be comfortable enough to get in and post with us! I think you would like it. I hope anyway. Most of us in there like to talk too-LOL...
I feel bad that some would feel like there isnt a place for them. I know that we have begged and begged some to become more active or to our group and some just arent ready to put themselves out there. Maybe pre-op I wouldnt have jumped at it either, you know? I had severe self esteem issues and because of all the redicule I had gone through I didnt put myself out there-and when I did attend my first meeting pre-op-those at the COF group treated me with such respect and love, and unconditional love and acceptance, that I knew I wanted everyone to feel like that! I want everyone to feel as good as I do since the surgery!!
I hope all is well with you-or at least getting easier. You and your family are in my and ours thoughts and prayers and we really do care. We love ya. Love, Janet