regret

Please please please is there anyone who truly has regrets over their WLS??

Hi There, No regrets here I LOVE MY RNY. Good luck on your journey.
 Love and Hugs Deb

why would you een respond when it is obvious that i am having major issues. the last thing i want to hear is how much you love yours thanks for nothing

 Well for one it didn't state you were haveing issuses. I looked at your profile and it said hoping to have surgery. So i was just trying to give you some encouragement. Sorry you are haveing a rough time. I'll say a prayer for you . But i still Love my RNY.Next time ya might want to add a little more detail and might try updateing your profile.So the other wonderful people on here won't get their butts chewed for not responding the way you want them to.
 Love and Hugs Deb

Dangit my post didn't show up. Anyhow first of all you didnt say you was haveing issues. I looked at your profile and it said hoping to have surgery. So i was just trying to give give you some support. You might wanna make yourself clear next time and try updateing your profile,Before one of the other wonderful people on this board responds to you and gets their butt chewed. I'm sorry yur haveing issues and i will pray for you. But i still Love my RNY. Have a Great day.
 Love Deb

I'm sorry that you are having "issues"....  but please try to reach out to someone instead of slapping them down.  There was no way that anyone could of know that you were having problems.  You have nothing on your profile indicating this.  You have no posts that would of indicated this....  

.....I don't mean to come off sounding so harsh...but darn it.... you were pretty harsh with the response. 

Lets do this over again... k? 


What is going on?  We can't try to help if we don't know what is wrong????  

We all go thru periods of having regrets.  I had so many complications and as a result have had to 4 other surgeries but do I regret losing 180 pounds? No but I might have looked into the lap band more than the RNY if I had known then what I know now but you don't know.  Now I am dealing with having lost to much weight and trying to gain some back.   Sometimes when I look at myself I regret it but then I can do so much more now then when I was over 300 pounds.

We are here to give each other support...
Sandy(shannon)  

I have NO regrets.  I weighed 557 lbs the day of surgery I n ow weigh 358lbs.  THis surgery saved my LIFE!!!  I love my RNY and am so very thankful I had it.  All the doubts and thoughts and fears are normal but it's soooooooooo worth it.  Go for it!!!